Dana7360
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You all are forgetting a very important truth to all this.
Not all single mothers started out that way.
There's this legal procedure we call DIVORCE here in America. Were a married couple can legally dissolve their marriage.
So you're saying that the state should take children that have been with their parents all of their lives and stick them in the foster care system to be adopted?
Against the will of the parents and child?
Do you realize how illegal, cruel and sick your views are?
Once again you conservatives show you're nothing but liars when you say you want a small government and government out of your lives.
You want a big nanny government to monitor our lives from conception to death.
I'm a believer in a different style of marriage where divorce is much less common. I'm not a big believer in the appropriateness of divorce either.
When it does happen the kids should be taken and placed with foster/adoptive parents, not left in some Government home.
I've never said I want a small Government, just one that's focused on the proper things.
When it does happen the kids should be taken and placed with foster/adoptive parents, not left in some Government home.
I have heard some crazy ass shit on this board but this takes the cake by far . Do you have any idea what you are advocating? What the impact on the child would be.? I do because I worked in a foster care and adoption agency for 26 years and I can tell you that removal is devastating!
Even children who have been abused are still bonded to the parents and are traumatized by removal. What next? Should parental rights be terminated if one the parents does not remarry in a certain amount of time to take the child back?
What else would you call for, the removal of all children born to single women at birth? You really haven't thought much about this have you.
Oh and those foster homes are government homes. They are licensed and funded by the government
Got kids?
Divorce isn't the only way a married woman becomes a single parent.
Death happens too. The husband dies and she's left with their children.
I guess that right winger thinks that the government should pile on more trauma and hurt on the woman and her children by taking them from the mother by force and putting them in a complete stranger's house. To be adopted by other strangers.
The right winger who posted it has to be totally nuts.