Psychology of people that go to "Gentlemans" Clubs

[Bonzi]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

 

[CrusaderFrank]

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[Bonzi]

so people that are obsessed with boobs?

just seems weird. Like someone that likes to be teased... ?

 

[Auld Phart]

Seeing young and tight bodies

 

[Skull Pilot]

Personally I think it's sad to see fat balding middle aged men well past their prime drooling over girls young enough to be their daughters or granddaughters for that matter

 

[Bonzi]

I guess that would depend on the club you go to.
I mean, you can see young, tight bodies on the internet.
Is it that much different in person? Wouldn't a lap dance just be a frustration?

 

[WorldWatcher]

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[Disgruntled_American]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

It is a great atmosphere (if you go to the right one). My wife and I go together there at least twice a year. Hell she even paid for me to get a lap dance. Why so prudish?

 

[Auld Phart]

I guess that would depend on the club you go to.
I mean, you can see young, tight bodies on the internet.
Is it that much different in person? Wouldn't a lap dance just be a frustration?

Been to several clubs when I was much younger, but never paid for a lap dance.

waste of money and time, IMO

 

[Bonzi]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

It is a great atmosphere (if you go to the right one). My wife and I go together there at least twice a year. Hell she even paid for me to get a lap dance. Why so prudish?

I've been to a few myself. Not prudish at all! I think it's fun to watch....
I just wonder about the psychology of guys that go there -

 

[Iceweasel]

Do you mean a strip club? I think the cat's out of the bag as of long ago. It's all about visual stimulation and pretending to be a player.

 

[Bonzi]

Do you mean a strip club? I think the cat's out of the bag as of long ago. It's all about visual stimulation and pretending to be a player.

So some guys need "real" visual stimulation vs. seeing it on the internet?
Like a "role play" kind of thing... sexy women flirting and talking etc.

Also, you won't ever get rejected or ignored at a strip club....

 

[Disgruntled_American]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

It is a great atmosphere (if you go to the right one). My wife and I go together there at least twice a year. Hell she even paid for me to get a lap dance. Why so prudish?

I've been to a few myself. Not prudish at all! I think it's fun to watch....
I just wonder about the psychology of guys that go there -

In most cases I think it is about bringing a fantasy to life as much as you can. For some, that is as close to a real naked female as they ar

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

It is a great atmosphere (if you go to the right one). My wife and I go together there at least twice a year. Hell she even paid for me to get a lap dance. Why so prudish?

I've been to a few myself. Not prudish at all! I think it's fun to watch....
I just wonder about the psychology of guys that go there -

Visually watching a real naked person dance is different than watching it on a computer or T.V. Much like watching a game on T.V. is different than being there.

It is a stimulus whether someone thinks they have a shot at a stripper or they are just trying to get as close to a fantasy as possible.

 

[ClosedCaption]

Its funny when women try to psycho analyze normal men behavior

 

[Disgruntled_American]

Also, you won't ever get rejected or ignored at a strip club....

That is also a big thing for some. People go through real life all the time getting rejected sexually that maybe this is an outlet for them in some small way.

The ones I feel bad for are the guys that think they have a real shot at stripper and they end up spending the rent or monthly mortgage money on them.

 

[Disgruntled_American]

Its funny when women try to psycho analyze normal men behavior

Or.....they just want to understand better. Not every woman is a feminazi.

 

[saveliberty]

Went once, just before I got married. I sat on the far side of the table and when the young lady danced over, I mouthed birthday and pointed at the best man. All of a sudden it was not as much fun for him and we left. My observation: Expensive beers.

 

[jon_berzerk]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

it was fun

--LOL

 

[Iceweasel]

Do you mean a strip club? I think the cat's out of the bag as of long ago. It's all about visual stimulation and pretending to be a player.

So some guys need "real" visual stimulation vs. seeing it on the internet?
Like a "role play" kind of thing... sexy women flirting and talking etc.

Also, you won't ever get rejected or ignored at a strip club....

No but you will part with some money. Lots of guys (and gals for that matter) never stop playing roles.

 

[ClosedCaption]

Its funny when women try to psycho analyze normal men behavior

Or.....they just want to understand better. Not every woman is a feminazi.

They wont accept the answer tho