Psychology of people that go to "Gentlemans" Clubs

[ZackB]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

You did not go to the right one.

I went to one place and had sex a few times with some of the girls there. It wasn't like a typical strip place (drinks, a stage, etc.) It was just private booths.

Right on, dude. What did the women look like? Were they hot, ok, or god awful?

 

[Votto]

The psychology is about symbolism and it is simple.

They want to see a pussy dancing on a pole and imagine it is theirs.

I hate those transpecies types

 

[Bonzi]

Random pics of strippers off the internet. Feel free to rate them:

 

[ZackB]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

You did not go to the right one.

I went to one place and had sex a few times with some of the girls there. It wasn't like a typical strip place (drinks, a stage, etc.) It was just private booths.

Is it less enjoyable knowing they do that with other guys. Like you are one of many, or is it all just about the physical pleasure?
I guess if I had a feeling they might actually enjoy it (instead of going through the motions) maybe it would be ok......

That might be a way that men and women are different...for me it was just about receiving services that I paid to receive. They just happened to be sexual services.

There are men. There are women. There is Bonzi.

 

[Bonzi]

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

You did not go to the right one.

I went to one place and had sex a few times with some of the girls there. It wasn't like a typical strip place (drinks, a stage, etc.) It was just private booths.

Is it less enjoyable knowing they do that with other guys. Like you are one of many, or is it all just about the physical pleasure?
I guess if I had a feeling they might actually enjoy it (instead of going through the motions) maybe it would be ok......

That might be a way that men and women are different...for me it was just about receiving services that I paid to receive. They just happened to be sexual services.

There are men. There are women. There is Bonzi.

I already told you I was an alien.
I have a line on my palm no one else has....

 

[ZackB]

Random pics of strippers off the internet. Feel free to rate them:

Cons:
Cellulite on her ass
Ass is too big
Too ethnic looking

Pros:
Willing to strip for men
Probably a bit on the slutty side

 

[Bonzi]

 

[ZackB]

Random pics of strippers off the internet. Feel free to rate them:

Cons:
Cellulite on her ass
Ass is too big
Too ethnic looking

Pros:
Willing to strip for men
Probably a bit on the slutty side

It also looks like she has a tramp stamp. I don't like those. Makes her look cheap. Plus, I don't want to be distracted pondering its meaning while banging her doggy style. I don't like tats on women. I have a tat, but it is ok because I am a man.

 

[ZackB]

That tat is distracting. I want to see her naked not score meth off her.

 

[Bonzi]

I like her better than the brunette.....

 

[ZackB]

Bonzi, you strike me as one of those women who likes to be controlled. You need a man to put you in your place from time to time. You like it. I am not talking about abuse or anything like that. You need a good, strong guy to take control of you periodically and have his way with you, then leave you disheveled and sticky.

 

[Bonzi]

It's hard to find good pics of strippers... I wonder if you're allowed to take pics in a strip joint...

 

[Bonzi]

Bonzi, you strike me as one of those women who likes to be controlled. You need a man to put you in your place from time to time. You like it. I am not talking about abuse or anything like that. You need a good, strong guy to take control of you periodically and have his way with you, then leave you disheveled and sticky.

yeah.... but I'm an aggressive bossy bitch... it would take a very strong man to do that.....

 

[Moonglow]

Bonzi, you strike me as one of those women who likes to be controlled. You need a man to put you in your place from time to time. You like it. I am not talking about abuse or anything like that. You need a good, strong guy to take control of you periodically and have his way with you, then leave you disheveled and sticky.

yeah.... but I'm an aggressive bossy bitch... it would take a very strong man to do that.....

I've never met a woman that isn't...

 

[Bonzi]

Bonzi, you strike me as one of those women who likes to be controlled. You need a man to put you in your place from time to time. You like it. I am not talking about abuse or anything like that. You need a good, strong guy to take control of you periodically and have his way with you, then leave you disheveled and sticky.

yeah.... but I'm an aggressive bossy bitch... it would take a very strong man to do that.....

I've never met a woman that isn't...

I'm not like that really - like I don't expect men to do work around the house. I would never give my man a honey-do list that's pathetic.
I just want him to be funny and fun and not hover all over me like a loser.
Be a man. Have friends. Have a job. Be proud of me (or to be seen with me) - be a go getter. And put up with my shit with a smile

 

[Bonzi]

I want a man that thinks my raving lunacy is cute and funny - if not, attractive.

 

[Syriusly]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I don't know.

I like naked ladies just fine- I like looking at naked ladies just fine- but I have no interest in strip clubs.

 

[ZackB]

I want a man that thinks my raving lunacy is cute and funny - if not, attractive.

And your hubby does not fit that bill?

 

[Bonzi]

I want a man that thinks my raving lunacy is cute and funny - if not, attractive.

And your hubby does not fit that bill?

No, it pisses him off. I have to be nice with him

 

[Syriusly]

so people that are obsessed with boobs?

just seems weird. Like someone that likes to be teased... ?

You are not a guy- you have no idea how obsessed with boobs we can be.......but yeah strip clubs seem weird to me.