Low Sex Drive In Women

[AllieBaba]

Make the men work for it, I say.

 

[jgbkab]

Be creative in the sack. Have them anticipating what you're gonna do next.

 

[dilloduck]

Make the men work for it, I say.

Why do you say that ?

 

[AllieBaba]

Because I gave birth 5 times and I can.

 

[007]

Hmmm..... are people that don't like sex..... angry?

 

[KittenKoder]

Hmmm..... are people that don't like sex..... angry?

Are people that do?

 

[DamnYankee]

Good point. It's all about priorities.

And arranging priorities. Life is funny sometimes. The last 2 years of my marriage I thought my wife had an unusually low sex drive. We got separated and had more sex in 1 month than we had had in the previous year. We were both busier after the separation than we were before it.

The separation also might have created some uncertainty which wasn't there before too. Relates to what Paulie said below

Sex tends to become boring over time when you live together, especially when you have kids, because you become forced to stick to certain times and locations.

Without spontaneity, you're almost guaranteed to lose the drive. If you can only do it after 9:00 when the kids go to bed, and only in the bedroom because the kids might catch you if you're somewhere else, then eventually you're going to lose the desire.

I think this is a big reason why people cheat, especially in marriages that involve children.

The spontaneity at one time created excitement and now you have to listen for footsteps and make sure the door is locked. The time and location is "forced" which probably takes some of the thrill away, but at least when two people make an effort that's half the battle.

Going away for the weekend once a month, when the kids were young, solved that problem for the most part.

 

[DamnYankee]

I just don't think women LIKE sex. I think they can tolerate it well enough, but most women, given their choice, would never have sex. There's a reason why prostitutes are female. People rarely charge anything for something they like to do anyway.

Obviously you don't know what the fuck you're talking about.

 

[DamnYankee]

I think I am one of those women right now! I have little desire to have sex but I think it is because I am looking for more than just sex.

So, make it more than just sex.

Make the men work for it, I say.

Isn't that counter-productive? How about making it daring?

 

[DamnYankee]

Because I gave birth 5 times and I can.

And that wasn't a shared contribution?

 

[strollingbones]

Well, that's cuz you're too far north, damn it! You need to get under the Alabama state line, i.e. Crimson territory.

you best have a good sex drive in alabama since they outlawed dildos....just who are the dildo police?

 

[strollingbones]

my hubby has a higher sex drive than i do...he considered anything under 2 to 3 times a day low till he hit his 50's....now once a day is fine with him....hello ....i got a ton of shit to do....mostly make sure people on the net are not spreading wrong hoods....but damn why do men confuse low sex drive with love....another hint guys...."i took a shower" is not...let me repeat not foreplay.....or..."i cant sleep" dont wake my ass up to tell me you cant sleep nudge nudge.....hello i was fucking asleep....i prefer less good sex than more bad sex and if i aint in the mood its bad sex....so why bother me..with wanting a mercy fuck

 

[jgbkab]

my hubby has a higher sex drive than i do...he considered anything under 2 to 3 times a day low till he hit his 50's....now once a day is fine with him....hello ....i got a ton of shit to do....mostly make sure people on the net are not spreading wrong hoods....but damn why do men confuse low sex drive with love....another hint guys...."i took a shower" is not...let me repeat not foreplay.....or..."i cant sleep" dont wake my ass up to tell me you cant sleep nudge nudge.....hello i was fucking asleep....i prefer less good sex than more bad sex and if i aint in the mood its bad sex....so why bother me..with wanting a mercy fuck

Men have egos to satiate. How else can you show a man that you love him?

 

[DamnYankee]

Men have egos to satiate. How else can you show a man that you love him?

STROKE their egos, of course.

 

[007]

Hmmm..... are people that don't like sex..... angry?

Are people that do?

I was asking you...

 

[Agnapostate]

you best have a good sex drive in alabama since they outlawed dildos....just who are the dildo police?

Pffft, doesn't matter. Everyone there has a "medical purpose" for them, thus making the purchase legal.

 

[007]

you best have a good sex drive in alabama since they outlawed dildos....just who are the dildo police?

Pffft, doesn't matter. Everyone there has a "medical purpose" for them, thus making the purchase legal.

You gotta be SHTTIN' me... dildos are ILLEGAL in ALABAMA?

 

[Bootneck]

Someone once asked me what the similarity between eggs benedict and a blow job was. That foxed me. I just couldn't reason that one out...until one of my married mates told me the answer...you can't get either one of those at home.

 

[DamnYankee]

you best have a good sex drive in alabama since they outlawed dildos....just who are the dildo police?

Pffft, doesn't matter. Everyone there has a "medical purpose" for them, thus making the purchase legal.

You gotta be SHTTIN' me... dildos are ILLEGAL in ALABAMA?

And apparently they are in TX and MN

Sweet Home, Alabama Dildos / Yet another state gets to outlaw "genital stimulating devices," as God just rolls her eyes

Sex Offender Issues: TX - Are Dildos Illegal in Texas (again)?

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdG0maNZGx4]YouTube - Dildos Illegal in Minnesota?[/ame]

 

[Luissa]

Hmmm..... are people that don't like sex..... angry?

yeah they are angry about guys treating them like shit, cheating on them, or just being dumbasses in general.