yea the facebook thing....people let them kids ask you to be friends....i feel awkward with that....i just have to really monitor what i say
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Many women/men want....Want a man to do his socio-economic sexually biased job and provide without question to a woman that refuses to even pick up after herself, men can be this whey also, but I'm not ghey...In my boat, you don't row, you don't stay in the boat...No worse than a women....You need to call the kids bluff. If they want to call you in and be given over to social services, let's see how they feel about that....
Kids manipulate, you have to grow a set and call them on it.
Not all women are like that. I know I'm not. I just want a home, food basics, TV, a computer and to be left alone unless there is something of substance to discuss or a place/event to go to. I don't expect my husband to read my mind. I have a mouth and I'm not afraid to say what I want (which is not much) - I don't talk a lot, and expect nothing.
Parents today want to be their kid's friend. They are too stupid to realize that the 'friendship' with kids needs to come when they are adults, long after the active parenting part is over. Parents today (no not all but damn an awful lot of them) think nothing of giving their kids a cell phone at 7 or 8 years old. They think nothing of letting them at 10 have full access to the internet on computers and phones, twitter accounts, facebook, etc and do little to no monitoring. The let the whole world into their children's brain and think nothing of it. Morons.
Cable tv comes with parental controls ... we used them (and still do, yeah I still block channels like mtv and the like) because too much of what's on is just plain shit. The neighbors were letting their boys play Call of Duty when the kids were 5 and 6 years old. My youngest is now 18, gave us a run for the money (still does but she has matured tons in the past year or so) was the one who screamed the 'I hate you' crap. My response? 'I'm not here to be liked, I'm here to parent you'. lol, that made her even madder.
Parents today want to be their kid's friend. They are too stupid to realize that the 'friendship' with kids needs to come when they are adults, long after the active parenting part is over. Parents today (no not all but damn an awful lot of them) think nothing of giving their kids a cell phone at 7 or 8 years old. They think nothing of letting them at 10 have full access to the internet on computers and phones, twitter accounts, facebook, etc and do little to no monitoring. The let the whole world into their children's brain and think nothing of it. Morons.
Cable tv comes with parental controls ... we used them (and still do, yeah I still block channels like mtv and the like) because too much of what's on is just plain shit. The neighbors were letting their boys play Call of Duty when the kids were 5 and 6 years old. My youngest is now 18, gave us a run for the money (still does but she has matured tons in the past year or so) was the one who screamed the 'I hate you' crap. My response? 'I'm not here to be liked, I'm here to parent you'. lol, that made her even madder.
I'm far from a perfect parent, but my kids never said they hated me nor have they ever had a temper tantrum.
... and I have never spanked them. It CAN be done.
Parents today want to be their kid's friend. They are too stupid to realize that the 'friendship' with kids needs to come when they are adults, long after the active parenting part is over. Parents today (no not all but damn an awful lot of them) think nothing of giving their kids a cell phone at 7 or 8 years old. They think nothing of letting them at 10 have full access to the internet on computers and phones, twitter accounts, facebook, etc and do little to no monitoring. The let the whole world into their children's brain and think nothing of it. Morons.
Cable tv comes with parental controls ... we used them (and still do, yeah I still block channels like mtv and the like) because too much of what's on is just plain shit. The neighbors were letting their boys play Call of Duty when the kids were 5 and 6 years old. My youngest is now 18, gave us a run for the money (still does but she has matured tons in the past year or so) was the one who screamed the 'I hate you' crap. My response? 'I'm not here to be liked, I'm here to parent you'. lol, that made her even madder.
I'm far from a perfect parent, but my kids never said they hated me nor have they ever had a temper tantrum.
... and I have never spanked them. It CAN be done.
You are fortunate. How old are your kids? My oldest was easy peasy, never a problem. Middle kid is special needs, boatload of behavior issues until he was around 14 or so, then great improvement (two steps forward, one step back but slowly moved in the right direction. He's 22 now and behavior is not at all like he was when he was younger). Youngest grew up in his shadow and is stubborn as shit, not surprised she pulled the nonsense she did. Testing, always testing us. I read once that 'those who need love the most will ask for it in the most unloving ways'. Truth.
To me, they are spoiled. They think that they can do whatever they want and not have to suffer a price which brings me to another way that has made them spoiled. They think that they can get everything handed to them. No, what they obviously do not know is that if they want something, they have to earn it and that if they take responsibility for their words and actions, they will then get more privileges.Do you think the kids today are spoiled, or, do you think that it's just another generation that's different?
I see more kids basically doing what they want without parents restraining their children.
I see more kids and teens not saying "excuse me" or "I'm sorry" if they bump into you etc.
I see more decisions being made by parents based on what their kids think or feel instead of being parents.
Are kids any different today then they were 10, 20, 30 years ago?
bingo...kids threatening parents with social services etc....i have seen boys hit their mothers and the father not do a damn thing....the first and only time my son raised his hand.....i jerked the car off the road and jerked him up by his jacket and told him...you feel froggy you fucking jump and i will kick your dumb ass...ah i was younger and stronger back then but he has respect for his elders and is still alive....
again being a good parent is hard.....i would show up at places he said he would be....sure it embarrassed the hell outta him but he knew i would do it...does that mean he was an angel....o hell no...i was good with being told by him that he hated me...i told him that was fine i was not his friend i was his mother...sure it broke my heart but fuck all if i would let him know that...
Do you think the kids today are spoiled, or, do you think that it's just another generation that's different?
I see more kids basically doing what they want without parents restraining their children.
I see more kids and teens not saying "excuse me" or "I'm sorry" if they bump into you etc.
I see more decisions being made by parents based on what their kids think or feel instead of being parents.
Are kids any different today then they were 10, 20, 30 years ago?
Yep...by the time you're old enough to whoop your old mans ass you realize he did you a favor.
Todays kids are still emotionally undeveloped when the reach adulthood.
remember the days when if an adult told your parents you did something wrong you had better be able to prove different.
Now days the little darlings can do no wrong in the eye's of the parent.