Josh Josh Josh....

You know I knew this girl once who was raised in a Mormon family. Got married in the Mormon Church. Big time Mormon. Then she got divorced because her husband was beating her and she was thrown out of the Church as a result. Suddenly she was 31 with nothing holding her back and she jumped full force into experiencing everything she always wanted to but couldn't. She was up for anything sexually and I do mean A N Y T H I N G. Just another example of someone raised in a severely sheltered environment and when she had the chance she ran to the other side as quickly as she could and to extreme extents.
He beat her, and she was excommunicated??????.
I'm a "big time" Mormon and dude that ain't the way it works


If She was jumping to the other side while she was a Mormon, cause that will get ya excommunicated

She never stated her case to the Mormon Church about his abusiveness. He had money and offered her a favorable settlement if she didn't take it to the Church. So according to the Church she had no legitimate reason to divorce or break the covenant. So she was excommunicated for abandoning her husband and breaking the marriage covenant. In return he made sure she never had to worry about anything financially ever again.
 
You know I knew this girl once who was raised in a Mormon family. Got married in the Mormon Church. Big time Mormon. Then she got divorced because her husband was beating her and she was thrown out of the Church as a result. Suddenly she was 31 with nothing holding her back and she jumped full force into experiencing everything she always wanted to but couldn't. She was up for anything sexually and I do mean A N Y T H I N G. Just another example of someone raised in a severely sheltered environment and when she had the chance she ran to the other side as quickly as she could and to extreme extents.
He beat her, and she was excommunicated??????.
I'm a "big time" Mormon and dude that ain't the way it works


If She was jumping to the other side while she was a Mormon, cause that will get ya excommunicated

She never stated her case to the Mormon Church about his abusiveness. He had money and offered her a favorable settlement if she didn't take it to the Church. So according to the Church she had no legitimate reason to divorce or break the covenant. So she was excommunicated for abandoning her husband and breaking the marriage covenant. In return he made sure she never had to worry about anything financially ever again.

I've never heard of, in my entire life, someone being excommunicated for getting divorced even on a whim, and believe me I've seen a lot of whim divorces.
 
You know I knew this girl once who was raised in a Mormon family. Got married in the Mormon Church. Big time Mormon. Then she got divorced because her husband was beating her and she was thrown out of the Church as a result. Suddenly she was 31 with nothing holding her back and she jumped full force into experiencing everything she always wanted to but couldn't. She was up for anything sexually and I do mean A N Y T H I N G. Just another example of someone raised in a severely sheltered environment and when she had the chance she ran to the other side as quickly as she could and to extreme extents.
He beat her, and she was excommunicated??????.
I'm a "big time" Mormon and dude that ain't the way it works


If She was jumping to the other side while she was a Mormon, cause that will get ya excommunicated

She never stated her case to the Mormon Church about his abusiveness. He had money and offered her a favorable settlement if she didn't take it to the Church. So according to the Church she had no legitimate reason to divorce or break the covenant. So she was excommunicated for abandoning her husband and breaking the marriage covenant. In return he made sure she never had to worry about anything financially ever again.

I've never heard of, in my entire life, someone being excommunicated for getting divorced even on a whim, and believe me I've seen a lot of whim divorces.


Beats me man. I am not a Mormon and I don't know how these things go. I know she was married in Arizona under what was called a covenant marriage which, from what I understand, is specific to the Mormon faith. I don't know if it exists in all states or what it is even all about, but I do know that it exists in Arizona law (because when I got my own divorce we had to show that it was not a covenant marriage) and it applies to the Mormon population. I understand as well that covenant marriages under Arizona law are far more difficult to get out of and that it requires some extreme measures. She apparently took the blame to get out of it in exchange for a financial settlement.

I don't know if the Church in Salt Lake City booted her or just the church she attended in Arizona told her not to come back. But according to her she was unwelcome in an LDS Church because according to them she had broken the covenant and not him. That's all I can tell you, brother.
 
I assume a covenant marriage is a Temple Marriage
A divorce by the courts also dissolves the covenant marriage
Courts as a rule don't care if it's a covenant marriage
.
Sometimes a Temple attendance maybe denied during a divorce proceeding but is usually granted later on

Where's she's been thru the temple any sex outside of marriage could lead to excommunication and since she married a moron and judges the church by him maybe she asked to have her name removed from the church
 
I assume a covenant marriage is a Temple Marriage
A divorce by the courts also dissolves the covenant marriage
Courts as a rule don't care if it's a covenant marriage
.
Sometimes a Temple attendance maybe denied during a divorce proceeding but is usually granted later on

Where's she's been thru the temple any sex outside of marriage could lead to excommunication and since she married a moron and judges the church by him maybe she asked to have her name removed from the church


I don't know dude. All I know is that she was raised in the church and for whatever reason she accepted the responsibility for the dissolution of the marriage in exchange for a settlement. For whatever reason she was apparently banished. That's really insignificant though. The point is that the moment she had a chance to live out her fantasies that had been suppressed all her life she went for it big time. Anytime, anywhere, with anyone - male or female or all together at once. I believe she did that because her urges had been repressed her entire life.
 
If he wants to get real kinky he can ask his wife to thump him in the balls with the bible
You appear to be a complex one.

St. John of the Cross spoke of man’s “predominant fault.” All of us have one where overcoming it is no easy matter. Why it is present is of various theological conjecture. St. John says all predominant faults are rooted in one of three --- pride, vanity, or sensuality. Within those sins are numerous manifestations.

Your friend Josh is not so unusual, nor should he be reason for anyone else to ridicule or feel of greater goodness. Such a fault can become a source of despair or of triumph. But only through humility, prayer, sacrifice and grace can it be overcome, and most often only after a great deal of time, effort, trial and failures.
?????? What on earth are you talking about? You do realize this is not someone I know personally right so therefore not my FRIEND. Honestly..do you know the story of this man or his family?
 
He should have went to his wife and said "I have lust in my life" She would have gotten rid of it for him lol. Some men are so afraid to tell their wife they desire these things and more times than not their wife will say ok well let's explore that but noooo... they have to go try finding it from somewhere else...sigh If you ask for your wife to be naughty and spank you I guarantee she will get motivated to find the reason in her heart to do it...encourage her a little by leaving that tilet seat down in the night or do not change the toilet paper roll...run the gas out of the car before she uses it to take the kids to the doc right before lunch...she will find a reason to beat your ass if that's what you are into LOL
I told mine all about it. After concreting the relationship they would tell it was gross...
 
Funny of all the big names that must be in there,,,,,,,this one pops out first, all by itself ............ wouldnt be surprised if its the only name the press covers
 
If he wants to get real kinky he can ask his wife to thump him in the balls with the bible
You appear to be a complex one.

St. John of the Cross spoke of man’s “predominant fault.” All of us have one where overcoming it is no easy matter. Why it is present is of various theological conjecture. St. John says all predominant faults are rooted in one of three --- pride, vanity, or sensuality. Within those sins are numerous manifestations.

Your friend Josh is not so unusual, nor should he be reason for anyone else to ridicule or feel of greater goodness. Such a fault can become a source of despair or of triumph. But only through humility, prayer, sacrifice and grace can it be overcome, and most often only after a great deal of time, effort, trial and failures.
?????? What on earth are you talking about? You do realize this is not someone I know personally right so therefore not my FRIEND. Honestly..do you know the story of this man or his family?
I am talking about you, not him.

I guess I make no sense. Fine.
 
If he wants to get real kinky he can ask his wife to thump him in the balls with the bible
You appear to be a complex one.

St. John of the Cross spoke of man’s “predominant fault.” All of us have one where overcoming it is no easy matter. Why it is present is of various theological conjecture. St. John says all predominant faults are rooted in one of three --- pride, vanity, or sensuality. Within those sins are numerous manifestations.

Your friend Josh is not so unusual, nor should he be reason for anyone else to ridicule or feel of greater goodness. Such a fault can become a source of despair or of triumph. But only through humility, prayer, sacrifice and grace can it be overcome, and most often only after a great deal of time, effort, trial and failures.
?????? What on earth are you talking about? You do realize this is not someone I know personally right so therefore not my FRIEND. Honestly..do you know the story of this man or his family?
I am talking about you, not him.

I guess I make no sense. Fine.
It was a joke Jeez
 
I defended this kid and still defend his family because they did all they really could but what he is doing now has nothing to do with his parents. I feel sympathy for his wife who just had child #4 in 5 years while he is paying websites to find some strange and stupid enough to use his real name. Good Grief Charlie Brown!!

Josh Duggar of 19 Kids and Counting Paid Nearly $1,000 for Ashley Madison Accounts: Report

Well, well, well, all I can say is that those of us that claimed this dude wasn't to be trusted, were right. I hope that there aren't any new child victims, but he has really shown to be a sham and not such a good Christian as all you conservatives painted him to be.
 
I defended this kid and still defend his family because they did all they really could but what he is doing now has nothing to do with his parents. I feel sympathy for his wife who just had child #4 in 5 years while he is paying websites to find some strange and stupid enough to use his real name. Good Grief Charlie Brown!!

Josh Duggar of 19 Kids and Counting Paid Nearly $1,000 for Ashley Madison Accounts: Report



I don't believe they did all they could, in fact, I believe they swept it under the rug.
 
From what I read his profile is basically a guy looking to learn what sex is all about. When are people going to learn that sheltering your children from such things only makes then run to it the moment they can? Want to make your kid a sexual deviant as an adult? Easy....just raise him in an environment where holding hands is only permitted after he is engaged.


He did more than hold hands.......he molested his sisters.....what they needed to do was let him face the music instead of shelter him and then pretend that everything was okay because he asked forgiveness. Let's see if his wife sticks by him and then whether conservatives are going to adulate her for staying by her cheating husband or if they will treat her like they treat Hillary and claim that she's only sticking by him for publicity/money/position.

His family is getting what they deserve......shame and criticism.
 
I defended this kid and still defend his family because they did all they really could but what he is doing now has nothing to do with his parents. I feel sympathy for his wife who just had child #4 in 5 years while he is paying websites to find some strange and stupid enough to use his real name. Good Grief Charlie Brown!!

Josh Duggar of 19 Kids and Counting Paid Nearly $1,000 for Ashley Madison Accounts: Report

Well, well, well, all I can say is that those of us that claimed this dude wasn't to be trusted, were right. I hope that there aren't any new child victims, but he has really shown to be a sham and not such a good Christian as all you conservatives painted him to be.


You know, why do you have to do that Mertex? Trinity never said this kid was an innocent that was caught up in circumstances beyond his control. He fucked up multiple times and it is right that he suffer the consequences. I have never heard Trinity say any different
 
I defended this kid and still defend his family because they did all they really could but what he is doing now has nothing to do with his parents. I feel sympathy for his wife who just had child #4 in 5 years while he is paying websites to find some strange and stupid enough to use his real name. Good Grief Charlie Brown!!

Josh Duggar of 19 Kids and Counting Paid Nearly $1,000 for Ashley Madison Accounts: Report



I don't believe they did all they could, in fact, I believe they swept it under the rug.

IF they did everything they claim they did, I personally don't see what more they could have done. They tried to get their kid help in multiple ways, they went to the police (which the VAST majority of parents wouldn't have done), they took measures to protect their kids after the fact, etc. IF all of that is true, what else should they have done? What would you have done in addition to what they did if it was your son?

Believe me, I have neither love nor sympathy for the Duggars. Frankly, I think they are a bunch of kooks. But I am not sure what else there was to do that they did not do...or at least claim they did.

The reality is that if this was not a family who portrayed themselves as so holy and righteous, this story wouldn't even be front page news
 
I defended this kid and still defend his family because they did all they really could but what he is doing now has nothing to do with his parents. I feel sympathy for his wife who just had child #4 in 5 years while he is paying websites to find some strange and stupid enough to use his real name. Good Grief Charlie Brown!!

Josh Duggar of 19 Kids and Counting Paid Nearly $1,000 for Ashley Madison Accounts: Report



I don't believe they did all they could, in fact, I believe they swept it under the rug.

IF they did everything they claim they did, I personally don't see what more they could have done. They tried to get their kid help in multiple ways, they went to the police (which the VAST majority of parents wouldn't have done), they took measures to protect their kids after the fact, etc. IF all of that is true, what else should they have done? What would you have done in addition to what they did if it was your son?

Believe me, I have neither love nor sympathy for the Duggars. Frankly, I think they are a bunch of kooks. But I am not sure what else there was to do that they did not do...or at least claim they did.

The reality is that if this was not a family who portrayed themselves as so holy and righteous, this story wouldn't even be front page news



They didn't report it to the police for over a year, and when they finally did, it was an officer friend, who is now in prison for child pornography. The place they sent him to for help (another friend of the family who was also charged with sex allegations) was not professional therapy, and all Josh did was help do labor work for the man.

The VERY least they should have done, would be to get Josh and their daughters some professional counseling. They are horrible parents.
 
From what I read his profile is basically a guy looking to learn what sex is all about. When are people going to learn that sheltering your children from such things only makes then run to it the moment they can? Want to make your kid a sexual deviant as an adult? Easy....just raise him in an environment where holding hands is only permitted after he is engaged.


He did more than hold hands.......he molested his sisters.....what they needed to do was let him face the music instead of shelter him and then pretend that everything was okay because he asked forgiveness. Let's see if his wife sticks by him and then whether conservatives are going to adulate her for staying by her cheating husband or if they will treat her like they treat Hillary and claim that she's only sticking by him for publicity/money/position.

His family is getting what they deserve......shame and criticism.


That went right over your head didn't it? About two miles above. Ok let me slow this down so the liberal mind can understand.

When you raise your children in an environment that is ultra-repressive and forbid them to do things, the child will have a natural tendency to want to do those things. These children are raised in an atmosphere that does not allow an outlet for the natural and healthy exploration of human sexuality. Since there is no healthy outlet and hormones rage in teenage boys, they will find an unhealthy means of exploration. My guess is that these children are taught that healthy outlets such as masturbation is sinful and will send them to hell. Furthermore, they cannot experiment with member of the opposite sex in ways that are natural for children growing up and learning about their sexuality. So with no healthy or natural outlet available, what do you think is going to happen? The urges are going to force some form of action and when there are no natural or healthy outlets available, the only thing left is unhealthy and unnatural outlets.

The family is getting what they deserve, but it is because they created an environment that was begging to be exploited in an unhealthy way and compounded the error by portraying themselves as icons of moral purity. I say again....if this had been a family that was not so religious and conservative, and did not portray themselves in the manner they did to the public, this story wouldn't even make the news for a single day.
 
From what I read his profile is basically a guy looking to learn what sex is all about. When are people going to learn that sheltering your children from such things only makes then run to it the moment they can? Want to make your kid a sexual deviant as an adult? Easy....just raise him in an environment where holding hands is only permitted after he is engaged.


He did more than hold hands.......he molested his sisters.....what they needed to do was let him face the music instead of shelter him and then pretend that everything was okay because he asked forgiveness. Let's see if his wife sticks by him and then whether conservatives are going to adulate her for staying by her cheating husband or if they will treat her like they treat Hillary and claim that she's only sticking by him for publicity/money/position.

His family is getting what they deserve......shame and criticism.


That went right over your head didn't it? About two miles above. Ok let me slow this down so the liberal mind can understand.

When you raise your children in an environment that is ultra-repressive and forbid them to do things, the child will have a natural tendency to want to do those things. These children are raised in an atmosphere that does not allow an outlet for the natural and healthy exploration of human sexuality. Since there is no healthy outlet and hormones rage in teenage boys, they will find an unhealthy means of exploration. My guess is that these children are taught that healthy outlets such as masturbation is sinful and will send them to hell. Furthermore, they cannot experiment with member of the opposite sex in ways that are natural for children growing up and learning about their sexuality. So with no healthy or natural outlet available, what do you think is going to happen? The urges are going to force some form of action and when there are no natural or healthy outlets available, the only thing left is unhealthy and unnatural outlets.

The family is getting what they deserve, but it is because they created an environment that was begging to be exploited in an unhealthy way and compounded the error by portraying themselves as icons of moral purity. I say again....if this had been a family that was not so religious and conservative, and did not portray themselves in the manner they did to the public, this story wouldn't even make the news for a single day.



I agree with that.
 

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