You know first before I start on this, let me apologize right away to any of the male species that are not like this and may get offended by my remarks. Keep in mind while you're reading this that I am married to a complete asshole......... ask anyone they'll tell you ( krisy, wolfsblood, gaffer). and it is 4:30am. Where to begin....... well let's start with this morning. I have been rudely awakened by my husband at 4 am why? because the battery on his car is dead why? becouse he left the headlights on when he got home last night from work. I turned them off when I got in from football practice with the boy's at 8:30. So he is taking my truck to go to work, oh and by the way he says if you want to go anywhere you'll need to get the charger and charge the battery up in the car............. oh gee it's 4 am and I have to take the boy's to school at 8 am guess who isn't going back to bed this morning. since I have to run the extension cord out the back door I can't just hook it up and go back to bed. Do you think he could use his f&@*ing brain for more then a hat rack once in a while. You know maybe remember to turn the headlights off when you get home DUUHHHHH!!!!! That's just the begining I could write a book on his horrible, bad, inconsiderate behaviour. He is a lazy, selfish, inconsiderate asshole. I can only think of 1 postive thing to say about this man, sad isn't it. He does go to work everyday and works hard. However he is under the assumption that when he gets home the only thing he has to do is get on the computer and play his games. He wants me to bring him his dinner and something to drink or get me this or get me that or run me a bath because I am to f@#$ing lazy to do it myself. However I rarely get a thankyou for doing anything for him. You know I didn't mind doing it at the begining because we didn't have kids, then when we did have kid's and I was staying at home, not working he still wanted me to do this. Now however I am excpected to go and get a job fulltime and take care of him and the children and do all the other household chores. For some reason he seems to think this is the 1950's, except I am supposed to work full time now as well. But what he fails to realize is as soon as I get a fulltime job, which will most likely be next school year, when my youngest enters first grade, is that I will soon be divorcing his lazy, sorry, inconsiderate ass. Speaking of the kid's here is another example of his laziness William is 8 and has been in soccer since the age of 4 now he is playing football, jesse is almost 6 and has been playing soccer since the age of 4. My husband has been to maybe 3 of william's soccer games and 1 of jesse's in 4 years. One of the other mom's I know from football made the comment last night that we have known each other for 4 years and she has only seen my husband 1 time. no he does not work 2nd shift, he works 1st, he gets home between 4 and 5 most days. Oh he's to tired to go to practices he's been working all day, well guess what I go back to work fulltime I won't be able to use that excuse becouse my kids depend on me. Lazy F#$@ING ASSHOLE. We been done that road, of me working fulltime with the kid's, I got no help from him then, I am positive I will get none now either. well ok I guess i'm done for the moment go ahead and comment or ask questions I dont mind. Anyone else married to an asshole like this? Some history........... been together for 14 years married 9, I think, too fucking long I stopped counting after 5. We pretty much have seperate lives, he does his thing, I do mine. I haven't slept in my bedroom in about a year, I take turn's sleeping with my boy's in their rooms. DIVORCE IS INEVITABLE!!! GOOD GOD I have been typing for over an hour now and haven't even told but a very small portion.