How does a man fall in love with a ugly women?

How does a man fall in love with an ugly woman? Beer goggles help!


it happens when the man is ugly

I'm not sure what city you live but there is this place in downtown Los Angeles called Fantasy Club. You pay the club by the hour and the girls live by the tip. These women (only latinas & whites) are very pretty I mean real pretty and curvy. It's like a place where you died and wake up in heaven with bunch of beautiful women waiting for you.
These are the looks of pretty sexy women that you normally see at the mall. They also have regular day job. With a good tip you can ask them for a date. My friend took me there last Dec. and I was my surprised at my soul ................ these are my types but I didn't like the place. I just sat there and played here for 2 hours waiting for my friend. He goes there every Saturday night stayed till 2 am.
That is a lot safer and quicker to get a date than Craigslist plus good selections.
 
I have problems understanding how a man can fall in love with an old woman.
I wish I fell in love when I was young so I would at least have that memory to hold me up when I see her old. But meeting some old hag and expected to do her. yuch.


Well why would you look for someone OLD?

I was 16yo when I had a relationship with my teacher. She was in early 30s, very pretty sexy and teaches me all I know about sex. She raided when I was taking a shower. Our relationship lasted for at least 4 months till we get caught and she end up in jail.
I had a dream like that once.

I posted the whole story last year under Bonzi's thread. Forgot the name of the thread.
After that experienced I craved for older women but no luck best I found was 2 years older than me. That is bc I was busy with girls of my age. Older means I'm not talking about those women in 40s or 50s.
 
Really, ugly women aren't that bad. There's some good to it. For instance, if you take an ugly woman to the beach, you can leave her laying there on the beach towel while you go get a beer and when you come back she will still be there and nobody will be hitting on her.
 
How does a man fall in love with an ugly woman? Beer goggles help!


it happens when the man is ugly

Hot women don't stay hot forever.


Ugly women stay ugly forever

We all get old and ugly eventually. The important thing is having someone by your side that cares about you. Hard to find with a hot women. Hot women typically have no soul.


Never said I wanted a HOT WOMEN. Just not someone ugly
 
I often wonder why women would marry ugly men....particularly. old ugly men.


If you had something in your head besides leftovers, you would know it's because of financial security
 
I often wonder why women would marry ugly men....particularly. old ugly men.

Generally.... money and security. First off, you don't have to please him that much. Too old to do it often. Second, if he dies, you end up with lots of cash, and plenty of years to find who you want.

Unfortunately we have such in my extended family. Married a lawyer at first. He died. She then married a doctor. He is barely a 3 on the meter. Nothing to look at. But he has a house on the beach in California, and a 3 car garage. Matching BMW convertibles.... and that's for daily commute. The 3rd is the "fun car". Not even sure what it is.

Me... I don't get it. I can't imagine marrying for money. But she is good with it. I've only seen her once, and she left pretty quick after the funeral. Didn't want to hang out with the average people.
 
Honestly, a real women that isn't a looker, is still better than playing with yourself, or watching movies of people you'll never meet, and wouldn't give you the time of day if you did.

The men who wait around for 10s, often end up waiting most of their lives, and end up very lonely and isolated. For one thing, there are not that many 10s. Second, not all 10s are worth having. Third, many guys are below a 5, and aiming for a 10, is like trying to hit the moon with a blow dart.

That said, you don't need to marry a 6+ to have a wild time. You can have great love, and great sex, without getting some plastic injected movie model.

That said, most women are not ugly. They are lazy. They cut off their hair, because it takes time to comb. Or they buy sweat pants, instead of skirts and shorts. It's not a physical problem, as much as a choice. That's why you watch those total makeover shows, and the ugly duckling goes in looking like a beggar, and comes out looking like they could walk a runway show.

Very few women are just physically un-attractive. It's simply they don't want to take the time. If they take the time, and put on the moves, almost any woman can knock your socks off.

I remember, working at a company, and we had this little 5 foot sales girl. Her hair was always in tied off, and she always wore a just pants and plain shirt. After almost 2 years, one day we had a major customer doing a walk through of the facility.... this chick came in with her hair all down and out and colored, and wearing this beautiful long dress. Basic eye shadow and painted her nails.

I honestly had no idea who she was. I actually thought it was the customer, or a new hire. It wasn't until I heard her talk that I froze in place....Holy crap! It's the sales girl! She looked like a magazine cover girl! It was crazy!.

So... I'm convinced any girl can look like a million dollars. It's just a matter of them wanting to put in the effort.
 
In real world men also marry for the sake of security. I've seen it both ways. Not just women.

Oh sure. In ages past, and around the world, it's the woman who does this.

In this culture... the tide it turning the other way. I've met guys who worked part time as an auto-mechanic, making barely scratch, and come to find out, they married a lawyer. So he's doing as little as possible, just getting out of the house so Miss Moneybags doesn't nag too much.

Why so many men have become pathetic in our culture, I'm not entirely sure.

But I've met a few, not many, but a few boy toys, that have no real skills or abilities, but married wealthy chicks, just so they have a life of easy while the lady works her butt off.

Somehow that strikes me as more pathetic... ironically on both sides... than the other way around.
 
It is a cliché but it is true, beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

It's so true. It's sad that in our porn and movie-star saturated era, that men can't see beauty unless it's fake and plastic. And what is really sad is... the only one they are really hurting, is themselves. They end up lonely and isolated, wondering why their life sucks. It's really sad.

Find a nice woman, settle down, and enjoy her. It's not nearly as complicated as people make it out.
 
I'm curious about something.

For the guys, rank yourself on a scale of 1-10 based strictly on your looks.
 

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