Shaan -
So if all of the countries you have been to were safe, peaceful, functioning societies, how are they irreconcilable with reality?
I never said they were. I said Islam is incompatible with humanity.
Islam's core doctrine calls for incessant, unabated warfare against non-Muslims until the entire world is ruled by the faithful (Muslims). It is the final surah (chapter) delivered to Mohammad by Allah in the Qur'an, and according to the doctrine of abrogation embedded within the Qur'an itself, would qualify as superseding any and all calls for peaceful co-existence with infidels/only waging war as a defensive measure.
Jews and Christians should be tolerated as subjugated citizens to Islamic hegemony- but there is no provision requiring Muslims treat people of other orientations be they Hindu, Buddhist, Sikh, Zoroastrian, atheist, agnostic, etc. with the same accord.
Whether or not Muslims around the world read into this stuff quite literally, which thankfully most don't- it still doesn't discount the inherent problem with Islam.