Free agency versus predestined, destiny, preordained. I decided to ask the hardest religious question I know. Just to see what other people opinions are on this matter. How can both coexist, afterall doesn't over ride the other? I think I have an answers on this, it actually came to me when a girl I thought, from first sight, that I was destined to marry, told me that she had met they guy she was going to marry. Its my fault really, I was at the time uncomfortable with dating a high school student, and so I let some distance develop between us waiting for a few months to pass for her to finally graduate. Before she graduated she met the guy she would eventually marry, oh well thats history. The day she told me her feelings about her future husband, she also asked me a question about families. The question regarded adopted children (she for reasons she feared she wouldnt have children of her own, its a long story) and her belief that adopted children in families where destined to be with there adopted parents. The answer to this free agency and destiny came to me in response to her sincere inquiry, remember at the time I was torn by her telling me about her being destined to marry this other guy. I will tell you late if anyone cares what I told her? Also feel free to make any comments on this subject you want or post your personnel beliefs. . P.S. I met her a couple of years later she was hers six month old baby girl, her fears in not having a child were unjustified.