I'm glad your church is growing, the majority of gays are christian. Gay christians for the most part are doing the same thing straight christians are, trying to be as christ-like as they can and follow his teachings.
And as we've said, none of those teachings even hint at the idea of having any marginal issue with being gay.
You cannot be "Christ-like" if you choose to live a lifestyle of perversity/lewdness/immoral sex. Either you are being deceived or you are deceiving.
Who determines what is "perverse", "lewd", or immoral when it comes to sex? Are you talking the puritanical values of the Christian right, or are you talking about the values that Hindus share in the Karma Sutra?
Or would you prefer Puritan values?
Yeshua (Jesus to you Christians) was asked once what was the greatest Commandment? Know what His reply was? "Love God above all else, and love one another like you love God".
Incidentally, gender wasn't specified.
Additionally, there is NO WHERE AT ALL in the NT where it specifically quotes Yeshua as condemning homosexuals.
Your heart must be hardened, along with your rationale. Are homosexual acts covered under "lewdness, perversity, or immoral sex"?
The Lord did not condemn people in His time on earth. That will come the Day of Judgement. He told us what was sinful. He told us to avoid sinning. He told us to pray for grace to overcome sin. If you are telling people what they are doing is not sinful, then you are encouraging them to sin, and possibly making them vulnerable to other evils.
Homosexual acts are sinful. It is possible to be forgiven for your sins. It is possible to stop sinning. There is no condemnation there, only what has been taught in the Bible.
Teaching falsehoods helps no one, except Satan. Why would you want your fellow man to sin, without even knowing that he should be asking for forgiveness (not from man, but from the Lord)?