Male circumcision is not performed to prevent the male from enjoying sexual relations. However, it is done for this reason in females. Removing the clitoris prevents the female from feeling any enjoyment from intercourse at all.
Do the majority of circumcised men believe they have been mutilated, and want their foreskins back? Or are they happy and content with their bodies the way they are?
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As a parent, I believe you have the right -within reason - to raise your child how you see fit, and if a parent wishes to have their son circumcised, then that decision is none of your business.
Now, here's where you're not so correct. Circumcision has been around for a VERY long time and was brought about as a religious ritual. It had two purposes, one as a flesh offering to God and one in which a person's (male OR female) attention was not turned away from God even in the sexual act itself. The modern day "reasons" for circumcision were a way to perpetuate the underlying reasoning using "science" to explain why it's better to mutilate a child. You're correct that removing the clitoris is not EXACTLY the same as removing foreskin, but the reasons for doing so are. Sexual enjoyment is frowned upon by nearly all the world's organized religious beliefs. Christianity itself says that sex is ONLY for procreation in accordance with God's wishes, a belief that is widely held even today.
We who have been circumcised as children aren't "unhappy". We actually have no idea what we're missing except as described by others who have remained intact. But that argument is most like seeing a child who was born with no arms - she can do most everything a "normal" person can do, except she uses her feet to do it. Does she hate the fact that she has no arms, or is she content with the fact that she doesn't have to wear shoes?
Your last comment needs to be examined a bit. It's the "within reason" part that gets me. To some parents it's reasonable to softly paddle a bottom to get across to a child what "no" means. Some parents use a belt or a wooden spoon to get that same point across. Some use a closed fist. Who makes the determination of what is "within reason"? If a parent, who was "within reason" at the time, harms a child using these techniques, society says the parent can go to jail. Is it reasonable to ignore every major medical organization's studies on circumcision in favor of "common knowledge"?
Male or female, mutilation is still mutilation.
Good post, thanks for the response.
Now, I am not religious, so circumcision for me has nothing to do with God or anything like that. Its because I think it is cleaner, and healthier, easier to look after, and lets face it, more attractive, because women probably do prefer a man who is cut to one who isn't.
As for 'within reason', you raise a good point again. I don't think that parents should be allowed to spank their children, or instil their religious beliefs upon them (although that is a discussion for another time) but I do think that they should be able to choose to have the child circumcised - provided it is done as soon as possible after the birth to prevent the child from being traumatised. I also believe that, if possible, the baby should be put to sleep before the procedure, to prevent pain.
I think that if circumcision is made illegal, parents will simply get it done anyway - and that put the child at risk because the people performing the circumcision may not be trained in this procedure, so that is an important thing to consider also.