What is about people not telling others (their friends and family) that what their wearing, doing, saying etc. is just not working for them...? Now, I think the larger ladies can be packaged to look pretty attractive but get behind them in a grocery store with undersized stretch pants and tops and the experience dims. A chubby guy with a furry beer belly and a tee shirt 2 sizes to small, just doesn't work. Women with make up that makes them look like the circus just came to town. American Idol.. Their singing just sucks.. why didn't someone tell them..Why?