Look, bode. I get it that you are gay and have to defend your lifestyle and pretend that it is a normal human condition. But in so doing you are also defending all kinds of human perversion and making them de facto normal.
The only way to get what you want and prevent the other aberations of marriage would be to process a constitutional amendment allowing 2 person gay marriage and prohibiting all other forms of marriage that do not involve two people.
otherwise there is no legal barrior to calling all other forms of human groupings marriages.
Why do you insist that something is abnormal or perverted just because a minority of people do it?
its not abnormal because only a minority do it. Its abnormal because of human mammalian biology.
Its abnormal by the same criteria that physical birth defects are abnormal. We don't discriminate because of abnormalities, but we don't call them normal either.
So birth control is abnormal too, I suppose.
Uhhh, how exactly do you jump from homosexuality to birth control? Male/female sex is normal, preventing unwanted pregnancy is normal. gay sex is not normal.
now, move on.
Preventing unwanted pregnancy is normal? Where in nature among the mammals does that occur?
btw, it's virtually impossible for a woman to get pregnant via anal sex - and you say preventing unwanted pregnancy is normal. You've just made anal sex normal.
anything a man a woman consent to do together is normal for them. two men doing anal is not normal, two women doing mutual cunniligus is not normal. same sex sex is not normal.