Same here. Mm is VERY outgoing when he is in the public eye. Not a stranger among us. Which also can cause some problems. People think they know Mm & readily voice their opinion on his life, relationships, etc., as tho' they are privileged confidants. I tend to hang back, tho' never unfriendly. This works well for us, except for that one 'chippy' who doesn't quite grasp or ignores who I am.Trigg said:....
My husband and I are opposites and it works great for us. I am very shy around new people and tend to not talk. My husband can talk to ANYONE. If we were both like me we'd never make new friends. He's very outgoing.....
But on a personal level Mm is very reserved as am I. When I first met him, I couldn't understand why he was so friendly with other people (public) and didn't treat me the same. I figured I rankled him someway and chalked it up as he just didn't like me.
So much to risk when you show someone the real, human you.