If it had been an 18 year old boy and a 14 year old girl, the boy wouldn't have been expelled and facing felony charges. This was a consensual relationship between two teens.
Ive seen cases with the older teen being a male
Yeah, find one then. Find a case where a male senior in High School was expelled and is facing felony charges for dating a Freshman or Sophomore female.
My son's friend was 18, he'd been messing around with a girl 15....he went to prison for 10 years! First offense! So ya, there's one for you.