-=d=- said:
Not all rapists and molesters should be convicted - yet are. My point is, ALL behaviors listed are the result of people's decisions to participate.
Homosexuality is not a behavior. It has behavioral manifestations. Murder is a behavior. Molestation is a behavior. Rape is a behavior.
-=d=- said:
If homosexuals are 'minorities', 'murderers', 'rapists', and 'used car salesmen' should ALSO seek protection/sanction of their behaviour.
Murderers and rapists could, if they chose to, celebrate their minority status, but everyone would condemn if because they're celebrating harmful behavior. Homosexuals' celebrations celebrate non-harmful behavior, and thus are very different from the other hypothetical celebrations you mentioned. It is more like "used car salesmen" celebrations; some people might not understand why salesmen and homosexuals want to celebrate they're differences, but because they are not harmful differences with harmful behavioral manifestations, they should not be included in your 'murderers and rapists' analogy.
-=d=- said:
There are some who feel sex between adults and children is perfectly NORMAL, because they could probably cite a pigmy gazelle somewhere in nature where it occurs.
Homosexuals point to homosexuality in nature to assert that being gay isn't predicated on doing or not doing gay things. They don't point to homosexuality in nature to assert whether it is "good" or "bad"; that's a completely different argument which anti-gays rebut with (mistakenly) when gays try to prove that there is something genetic or psychological that predisposes one to homosexuality (as opposed to merely choosing to participate in homosexual acts). Pointing to animals strips away the social pressures and ego-driven choices that human beings make, showing that homosexuality occuring in nature must be independant of these singularly human external influences.
Similarly, anyone who points to nature to assert whether sex with children is mistakenly assuming that if it happens in nature it's necessarily "good" or "acceptable". All they've proven is that animals do it too, and do so without external societal influences (I don't even know if your pigmy gazzelle reference was true, but I'm speaking to the point if it is true). Some anti-gay proponents will read this paragraph and think that I'm being hypocritical, but the key difference remains: gays point to nature to show that homosexuality isn't based on one's behavior (therefore there is no "choice" involved) but not necessarily to prove that homosexuality is acceptable (we hold that to be self evident based on the principles of non-harm and expression of romance, not merely sexual urges), whereas pedophiles (mistakenly) point to nature to justify their actions as acceptable because it is found in nature (and like D said, this is a false premise).
-=d=- said:
Their willful actions are no less valid than homosexuals' willfull actions. Killing takes place EVERYWHERE in the animal kingdom - thus, should be considered NATURAL by society. Some killers say they were BORN that way, I mean, after all, who would CHOOSE to be a killer and face such HORRIBLE persecution. Nobody would CHOOSE a killer/Rapist lifestyle, therefore they MUST be born that way, right?
Like I said, you're not a killer until you've killed someone, and you're not a rapist until you've raped someone; some people are more psychological prone to these things, and should seek help because the behavioral manifestations of these psychological conditions are unacceptable and harmful. Participating in homosexuals acts, on the other, hand, doesn't make you gay. You could also be gay and not ever participate in homosexual acts. The difference is, these behavioral manifestations of a certain psyhological predisposition aren't harmful or (we think) societally unacceptable.
-=d=- said:
I wonder if you will ever concede that homosexuality is 100% the choice of the participant, and NOT some inate uncontrollable urge which should be thought of as 'normal'.
Homosexuality is 0% the choice of the participant. Homosexual acts are 100% the chice of the participant. But these urges, unlike murder and rape (where your argument breaks down) aren't harmful or unacceptable.