Personally I doubt they ever met, they ran in completely different circles.
And yet, she didn't simply allege that Kavvy was her attacker along with an unidentified collaborator. She identified the second person involved as Kavvy's best friend from those day. And she identified PJ and Squi as part of their social circle, too.
The only way she would know that information to have had some kind of association with Kavvy and is social circle. Kavvy insisted that was impossible. That is where it all falls apart. Maybe Ford's accusations are exaggerated. Maybe her memory is distorted. But her memory didn't magically distort into a perfect coincidence of names that just happen to match the social circle you claim she never overlapped with.
As I keep saying, his dishonesty is what should have been at issue. And if the Democrats had any damn sense that's what they would have focused on. But like the morons they are, they had to turn a winnable issue into a sure loser. As I laid out in the thread I linked to above, Democrats are the ones who turned the confirmation into a question of convicting Kavvy. People vote against conviction by default; all the unsure votes, like Flake and Manchin,
had to vote against conviction.
If Democrats were smart--well, I suppose that's like saying "if the world was perfect," but you get the idea--they would have focused on Kavvy's dishonesty. They would have made worked to turn the confirmation into a question of whether or not Senators
trust Kavvy enough to justify being on the high court. If they had done that, then the default would have leaned in Democrats favor. If they had done that, then being unsure would have necessitated a voting in Democrats favor.
Personally, I think the nomination should have been withdrawn and Republicans should have immediately set out to install an alternative conservative nominee before year's end. The court's balance would still be the same, without the shit show we're getting now.