"Dated" that's a cute way of saying it. He was 30 years her senior for goodness sakes. (FYI, he was the Speaker of the Assembly in Scaramento, not a Senator)
She had one job. In the Alameda COunty DA's office. Having a pulse and passing the bar were about the only qualifications needed for the job (FYI, she failed the bar her first time around).
Not end of story. After the patronage jobs he got for her out of Sacramento, Willie was elected the Mayor of San Francisco, and months later, my goodness, surprise surprise, she was offered a job in the SF DA's office. Quite a coincidence, eh?
I have no idea about her sexual skills. But, be honest, boning the guy that's getting you the jobs raises questions.
If you have anything to back up this homosexual implication you are making about Vance, let's see it.
The story is just beginning. Your party's leaders chose to anoint this untested, unvetted woman as your nominee, and they left y'all to deal with her extensive baggage.