Not luck. Just birth. All four of my grandparents were born in Ireland, and I'm a third-generation American. And you don't have to be a slave owner to be on the wrong side of history and morality concerning slavery.
If there were monuments to the Boston shipmen to dragged Africans from their home to Barbados, I would demand those get torn down. If there were monuments to the Trans-Saharan slave trade, I would demand those get torn down too. But again, and please try to pay attention because this is important to the discussion, NEITHER OF THAT APPLIES TO SOUTHERNERS WHO LED AN ARMED REBELLION AGAINST OUR NATION. That's like arguing I need to discuss WWII because this is about the Civil War. It's really, remarkably sad that you know you lost this "debate" and you keep screaming, "Nuh-uh! Look over there!" What's next, you going to bring up sweet tea, peaches, and pecan pie?
They are not Southern heroes. They are traitors to the United States of America. What else do you call someone who fought and killed Americans so they can preserve their precious peculiar institution — which wasn't even in jeopardy? Like today's militia nutjobs, conservative slaveowners back then believed any limit on what they wanted was tyranny. You can call a turd a sandwich all you want, but that don't make it edible.
I'll even say Confederate forces fought bravely and better than Union forces. The North won simply because it had more men and supplies, not because of any military acumen. I can't imagine what the average Southern soldier had to go through, the agonizing decision on whether to fight for slavery or look like a coward. But in the end, isn't it a conservative principle that you're responsible for your own actions?
So call me a fluffy white marshmallow all you want, Sparky. Because at least I don't have treason in my family tree.
One thing you're omitting from your essay is that those "traitors" were too Americans. So any way you put it, it's part of our history. But that's not the point...
I've been all over Europe and Asia, and in a few places in South America and everywhere I went I enjoyed the architecture of monuments, statues, and building of the past. If not amazed, I would at least think about meaning of those objects and history behind it and people who sometimes spent lifetime to create it. I think that is not just me, but a lot of people hold that sentiment deep down and look at it as connection between them and previous generations.
Now, that link to back in time may be something glorious, or even something embarrassing, but weather one or another it something we hope not to forget. All those monuments are put up to ensure that we look back at the past and remember those who build the future "for better or for worse". Because, to forget successes or mistakes of our ancestors and to not learn from them, and let them disappear is something that only someone apathetic would allow. No protest, no anger, not even a feeling of loss, just apathy.
What government criminals are doing now in New Orleans is ensuring destruction of part of American history. Has anyone asked people what they think of it before they decided to do it? WTF, monuments are being destroyed because of their "connection to the South". If we are going to erase the history we don't like, or hate, we'll quickly find ourselves in the world isolated from our ancestors and history in general... and most important, isolated from remembering their mistakes and successes that we learn from. So what is next? Are we going to start taking down churches, because they have their share of dark history that should be erased? Or are we going to butcher ancestors of all those evil people that did that?
Not so long ago ISIS was doing the same thing, erasing the past they don't like, by leveling city of Palmyra. We were all disgusted by it few months ago, just to find out today that we're doing pretty much the same thing. That's fucking insane.