Why should anyone work by the insane logic of the op
Just claim poor and he'll volunteer to take care of us. I'll give you my address you can send me money weekly. K
I get this weird feeling that you didn't actually read the OP. If you did, then you don't seem equipped to understand it. It's pretty straightforward. We are biologically related through common descent. This makes us family by definition. You wouldn't watch your first cousin slowly starve while covered in shit and living in the gutter. Why would it be different for your seventh cousin? You could argue that you don't know the latter like you know the former, but I would counter that you only think this way because of your culture isn't very healthy and suffers from a form of narcissism as a general rule.
Perhaps it is only foolish to assume that all others have the same perception of your idealistic approach to family.
Where as it is completely reasonable to suggest that families provide and care for each other ... It is equally apparent that families approach the idea of long-term support quite differently.
Not to set their standards as any sort of benchmark ... My parents saw it as their obligation to instill values such as independence and self-sustainability.
They instilled a respectable work ethic at an early age ... They defined self-responsibility as a requirement in every measure of engagement with societal demands.
The options they allowed were rather straightforward and led to fruition of the desired outcome.
I remember as freshman in high school when my father explained to me ...
"When you graduate, the day you graduate from high school ... One of three things will happen.
The first concerning the fact that you are accepted into college and waiting to attend at the beginning of the Fall Semester ... And working through the Summer.
The second option can include your enlistment into the military and the subsequent wait necessary to leave for training.
The third option is simple and understandable ... If you fail to meet the previous conditions, you will be out of my house effective that day."
It had nothing to do with narcissism unless you would care to suggest that an individual capable of caring for themselves cannot be achieved without some sense of superiority in regards to their view of others who may not be as well equipped to handle the actual demands of becoming a worthwhile benefit to society.
I am also a firm believer that starvation and the lack of financial security can certainly be very powerful motivators.
They also have the greatest ability to form the most dependable interpretations as to the character of any individual ... Whether they choose to conquer the obstacles before them or surrender to their weaknesses.
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