Why do women have so many kids with different men?

[ChrisL]

Play your fiddle ... At least you won't be ******* every Tom, Dick and Harry that comes knocking ... And reduce the chance you bring more children into your irresponsible lifestyle.

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Well, I don't do that, so . . . I think you're addressing the wrong person.

You posted the fiddle ... Not me.
You want to argue you don't have the deciding responsibility to keep your legs shut ... Not me.

If the shoe fits wear it ... If a woman cannot keep her legs shut ... She is ******* around.

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And the same goes for the men. The women can't whore around without the men to do it with.

 

[High_Gravity]

How many times can you squeeze blood out of a rock? paternity courts are a joke usually. Most of the guys doing this crap have no real means of livelyhood anyway (legal at least). So the state picks up the bill, no one tells the people to knock it off, and the cycle of 36 year old grandma's continues.

Based on what? Because you said so?

Because it evidently hasn't gotten rid of the problem. Using paternity courts to solve this is like bailing out the boat with a bucket after it has already sunk.

No. Because it doesn't gel with your anti progressive stance. It took a federal law for men to have to pay child support. A federal law.

Based on what? Because you said so?

I don't think anyone is disagreeing with the idea you find it necessary to blame anyone (especially men in general) ... For the fact a woman keeps screwing multiple men and making multiple babies.

I am willing to suggest that ideas like that are exactly why some women keep making multiple babies with multiple partners with no regards to their responsibilities concerning the necessity to stop screwing around.

High Gravity and others have consistently pointed out your ideas on the matter are a huge part of the problem.

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Grow up. High Gravity has consistently said that men are not a problem because they are horn dogs and thus, not responsible.

Show me where I have said men are not responsible, I said they are horney yes, but I never said they bare no responsibility here.

It's implied here:
Thank you and I can tell you from a mans POV, most of the times we just tolerate the rug rats for the sex, thats it. Most of these men are not there to father these kids for the long term.

Here:
Women are the ones who will bare these children and in alot of cases nowadays end up raising them without any male assistance, men should use protection but at the end of the day the burden lays with the female.

And the horndog post.

And? is that incorrect? men have the option to just leave or terminate their parental rights, do the women have that option unless they choose to abort?

 

[R.D.]

Exactly, with some of you men here, it is always the women's faults.

Like it or not with today's societal acceptance and pushing of abortion the responsibility has been taken off the man to a large degree. Gone is the day she gets to trap him into marriage. Oh, he still pays for fathering her child lots of times, but she is the decision maker.

I'm sorry, I am not pro abortion, but I fail to see your point, considering we are speaking of women who decided to KEEP their children and now are getting a bad rap for that too. Perhaps THAT is why they get abortions?

Being pro abortion isn't the point. You trying to lay blame for these woman's choices on men in today's world is a fools game.

We are no longer living by the strict standards that once were as a society. We wanted all the perks and we got them. Gone are the days we can whine because he done us wrong

When men impregnate teens (which are a LARGE portion of single moms, which is what we are talking about), then yes, they are more to blame than the teen girl. When men lie to get with women, then, yes, they are more to blame than the woman for believing their lies. Perhaps she is stupid, but the men in such circumstances are deceitful and wrong.

In any other instance, both need to take responsibility for their actions. They BOTH decided to have sex consensual, so one is not more to blame than the other. The man is just as capable of keeping his penis in his pants.

I've tried to follow the entire thread so when you changed the topic I missed it with teens. I caught the retarded girls deflection and that one made me laugh.

You again deliberately miss the point. She and only she has the choice to bring the life into this world. You're yesteryear pretense that she is an innocent is wacked. And the thread is why woman do this, not why guys do it. It isn't that difficult to separate the two.

 

[BlackSand]

And the same goes for the men. The women can't whore around without the men to do it with.

Women are responsible for their own behavior. It doesn't matter what the man wants if the woman recognizes her responsibility to keep her legs shut.

I have no idea what world you live in if you think a woman has to jump in bed and spread her legs because a man wants to screw her ... That is just fucked up plain and simple.

Thank goodness there are women with more common sense than you demonstrate ... Or we would have babies running around like bunnies.

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[ChrisL]

It's also funny how men act as if they "hate" whores when they really love them. They love pornography and nude pictures. They LOVE Kim Kardashian showing off her big giant butt and they LOVE Nikki Minage and her "Anaconda" song and her big giant disgusting butt. Teen girls get SUCH mixed signals from society. It's no wonder they're confused.

 

[AyeCantSeeYou]

Back to the OP: Lack of parental guidance/authority figure while young, lack of morals, lack of self respect are all part of the reason. You could also add in a lack of life goals.

 

[ChrisL]

Exactly, with some of you men here, it is always the women's faults.

Like it or not with today's societal acceptance and pushing of abortion the responsibility has been taken off the man to a large degree. Gone is the day she gets to trap him into marriage. Oh, he still pays for fathering her child lots of times, but she is the decision maker.

I'm sorry, I am not pro abortion, but I fail to see your point, considering we are speaking of women who decided to KEEP their children and now are getting a bad rap for that too. Perhaps THAT is why they get abortions?

Being pro abortion isn't the point. You trying to lay blame for these woman's choices on men in today's world is a fools game.

We are no longer living by the strict standards that once were as a society. We wanted all the perks and we got them. Gone are the days we can whine because he done us wrong

When men impregnate teens (which are a LARGE portion of single moms, which is what we are talking about), then yes, they are more to blame than the teen girl. When men lie to get with women, then, yes, they are more to blame than the woman for believing their lies. Perhaps she is stupid, but the men in such circumstances are deceitful and wrong.

In any other instance, both need to take responsibility for their actions. They BOTH decided to have sex consensual, so one is not more to blame than the other. The man is just as capable of keeping his penis in his pants.

I've tried to follow the entire thread so when you changed the topic I missed it with teens. I caught the retarded girls deflection and that one made me laugh.

You again deliberately miss the point. She and only she has the choice to bring the life into this world. You're yesteryear pretense that she is an innocent is wacked. And the thread is why woman do this, not why guys do it. It isn't that difficult to separate the two.

Retired girls? Sorry, I don't know what you are talking about. I am simply stating that multiple children and "whoriness" goes both ways. It's really not fair, IMO, to say "why do women ALLOW men to . . . " The men made decisions here too. They are not retards . . . I hope.

 

[High_Gravity]

What woman who screws around making multiple babies with multiple men and shows no regard to the fact she is making a mess ... Thinks that she would ever be considered as a decent prospect for an honorable man?

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Lots of screwed up people out there. That does not excuse the men for using these women as baby making machines. I've actually heard of retarded women being knocked up multiple times. Are they to blame? Boy, they must be so stupid.

You really move the goalpost to retarded people?

Ugh.


No one is excusing the men, we are just pointing out that the women are either stupid or don't care.

Why are there so many men out there ******* anything that moves?

What woman who screws around making multiple babies with multiple men and shows no regard to the fact she is making a mess ... Thinks that she would ever be considered as a decent prospect for an honorable man?

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Lots of screwed up people out there. That does not excuse the men for using these women as baby making machines. I've actually heard of retarded women being knocked up multiple times. Are they to blame? Boy, they must be so stupid.

You really move the goalpost to retarded people?

Ugh.


No one is excusing the men, we are just pointing out that the women are either stupid or don't care.

Why are there so many men out there ******* anything that moves?

And in some cases, even things that don't move. Lol.

It's okay because men have a sex drive? Women do not, so women have to control the men? Maybe we should all start wearing burkas too.

Chastity belts.

If it weren't for whores, some of you might NEVER get laid. Lol.

So?

It's also funny how men act as if they "hate" whores when they really love them. They love pornography and nude pictures. They LOVE Kim Kardashian showing off her big giant butt and they LOVE Nikki Minage and her "Anaconda" song and her big giant disgusting butt. Teen girls get SUCH mixed signals from society. It's no wonder they're confused.

Who hates "whores"? the only one talking about hating people is you. I have no issue with women or men being promiscous just be safe and use protection.

 

[ChrisL]

And the same goes for the men. The women can't whore around without the men to do it with.

Women are responsible for their own behavior. It doesn't matter what the man wants if the woman recognizes her responsibility to keep her legs shut.

I have no idea what world you live in if you think a woman has to jump in bed and spread her legs because a man wants to screw her ... That is just fucked up plain and simple.

Thank goodness there are women with more common sense than you demonstrate ... Or we would have babies running around like bunnies.

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Well, I only ever had one child and no abortions, so you are wrong . . . again. Lol!

 

[High_Gravity]

It's also funny how men act as if they "hate" whores when they really love them. They love pornography and nude pictures. They LOVE Kim Kardashian showing off her big giant butt and they LOVE Nikki Minage and her "Anaconda" song and her big giant disgusting butt. Teen girls get SUCH mixed signals from society. It's no wonder they're confused.

Thats entertainment, it sounds like those teen girls need better parents who sit them down and tell them that your not supposed to act like Nikki Minaj in real life.

 

[ChrisL]

Lots of screwed up people out there. That does not excuse the men for using these women as baby making machines. I've actually heard of retarded women being knocked up multiple times. Are they to blame? Boy, they must be so stupid.

You really move the goalpost to retarded people?

Ugh.


No one is excusing the men, we are just pointing out that the women are either stupid or don't care.

Why are there so many men out there ******* anything that moves?

Lots of screwed up people out there. That does not excuse the men for using these women as baby making machines. I've actually heard of retarded women being knocked up multiple times. Are they to blame? Boy, they must be so stupid.

You really move the goalpost to retarded people?

Ugh.


No one is excusing the men, we are just pointing out that the women are either stupid or don't care.

Why are there so many men out there ******* anything that moves?

And in some cases, even things that don't move. Lol.

It's okay because men have a sex drive? Women do not, so women have to control the men? Maybe we should all start wearing burkas too.

Chastity belts.

If it weren't for whores, some of you might NEVER get laid. Lol.

So?

It's also funny how men act as if they "hate" whores when they really love them. They love pornography and nude pictures. They LOVE Kim Kardashian showing off her big giant butt and they LOVE Nikki Minage and her "Anaconda" song and her big giant disgusting butt. Teen girls get SUCH mixed signals from society. It's no wonder they're confused.

Who hates "whores"? the only one talking about hating people is you. I have no issue with women or men being promiscous just be safe and use protection.

You? Who only tolerates the rug rats to have sex with moms. Okay, that's a good idea. Protection.

 

[ChrisL]

It's also funny how men act as if they "hate" whores when they really love them. They love pornography and nude pictures. They LOVE Kim Kardashian showing off her big giant butt and they LOVE Nikki Minage and her "Anaconda" song and her big giant disgusting butt. Teen girls get SUCH mixed signals from society. It's no wonder they're confused.

Thats entertainment, it sounds like those teen girls need better parents who sit them down and tell them that your not supposed to act like Nikki Minaj in real life.

That is true, but the fact of the matter is, sadly, that is not always the case. These are the stark cold realities of life, which is not always fair and can be quite brutal actually.

 

[High_Gravity]

It's also funny how men act as if they "hate" whores when they really love them. They love pornography and nude pictures. They LOVE Kim Kardashian showing off her big giant butt and they LOVE Nikki Minage and her "Anaconda" song and her big giant disgusting butt. Teen girls get SUCH mixed signals from society. It's no wonder they're confused.

Thats entertainment, it sounds like those teen girls need better parents who sit them down and tell them that your not supposed to act like Nikki Minaj in real life.

That is true, but the fact of the matter is, sadly, that is not always the case. These are the stark cold realities of life, which is not always fair and can be quite brutal actually.

I agree with you there.

 

[martybegan]

What woman who screws around making multiple babies with multiple men and shows no regard to the fact she is making a mess ... Thinks that she would ever be considered as a decent prospect for an honorable man?

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Lots of screwed up people out there. That does not excuse the men for using these women as baby making machines. I've actually heard of retarded women being knocked up multiple times. Are they to blame? Boy, they must be so stupid.

You really move the goalpost to retarded people?

Ugh.


No one is excusing the men, we are just pointing out that the women are either stupid or don't care.

Exactly, with some of you men here, it is always the women's faults.

They bear responsibility for their actions, again in modern society the "innocent flower" defense doesn't cut it. You gals got equality, now all of a sudden you seem to want to give some of it back up.

Sorry, no refunds.

Ohhhh. Lol. So THAT is what this is all about. Who said that they do NOT bear responsibility? I am stating that the men are just as much and, in some situations (when it's involving teens and very young adults), it can be MORE the man's fault because he will lie and manipulate. True story. That has NOTHING to do with equality.

Your posts seem to lean towards the "innocent flower" theory.
and blaming the men doesn't remove the fact that the consequences are born by the woman, usually because the type of man who does this is an uncaring cad.

Therefore doesn't it make sense to tell our young women that ******* around with these guys is a bad idea?

 

[martybegan]

What woman who screws around making multiple babies with multiple men and shows no regard to the fact she is making a mess ... Thinks that she would ever be considered as a decent prospect for an honorable man?

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Lots of screwed up people out there. That does not excuse the men for using these women as baby making machines. I've actually heard of retarded women being knocked up multiple times. Are they to blame? Boy, they must be so stupid.

You really move the goalpost to retarded people?

Ugh.


No one is excusing the men, we are just pointing out that the women are either stupid or don't care.

Why are there so many men out there ******* anything that moves?

And in some cases, even things that don't move. Lol.

It's okay because men have a sex drive? Women do not, so women have to control the men? Maybe we should all start wearing burkas too.

There aren't actually, however the ones that do spread themselves around. And these are the ones we are talking about.

When it comes right down to it, no matter how "holier than thou" men like to make themselves sound, they are the biggest sluts.

I thought calling someone a slut was judgmental and "bad"

 

[martybegan]

It's also funny how men act as if they "hate" whores when they really love them. They love pornography and nude pictures. They LOVE Kim Kardashian showing off her big giant butt and they LOVE Nikki Minage and her "Anaconda" song and her big giant disgusting butt. Teen girls get SUCH mixed signals from society. It's no wonder they're confused.

Nobody gets pregnant when I whack off to some porn. (no one gets pregnant either when i have sex with my fiance either, but that's because I am 1) responsible and 2) I verify Birth control integrity EVERY TIME

I can wait until we want to have kids to dispense with the annoyance of condom use/ other methods.

 

[R.D.]

Like it or not with today's societal acceptance and pushing of abortion the responsibility has been taken off the man to a large degree. Gone is the day she gets to trap him into marriage. Oh, he still pays for fathering her child lots of times, but she is the decision maker.

I'm sorry, I am not pro abortion, but I fail to see your point, considering we are speaking of women who decided to KEEP their children and now are getting a bad rap for that too. Perhaps THAT is why they get abortions?

Being pro abortion isn't the point. You trying to lay blame for these woman's choices on men in today's world is a fools game.

We are no longer living by the strict standards that once were as a society. We wanted all the perks and we got them. Gone are the days we can whine because he done us wrong

When men impregnate teens (which are a LARGE portion of single moms, which is what we are talking about), then yes, they are more to blame than the teen girl. When men lie to get with women, then, yes, they are more to blame than the woman for believing their lies. Perhaps she is stupid, but the men in such circumstances are deceitful and wrong.

In any other instance, both need to take responsibility for their actions. They BOTH decided to have sex consensual, so one is not more to blame than the other. The man is just as capable of keeping his penis in his pants.

I've tried to follow the entire thread so when you changed the topic I missed it with teens. I caught the retarded girls deflection and that one made me laugh.

You again deliberately miss the point. She and only she has the choice to bring the life into this world. You're yesteryear pretense that she is an innocent is wacked. And the thread is why woman do this, not why guys do it. It isn't that difficult to separate the two.

Retired girls? Sorry, I don't know what you are talking about. I am simply stating that multiple children and "whoriness" goes both ways. It's really not fair, IMO, to say "why do women ALLOW men to . . . " The men made decisions here too. They are not retards . . . I hope.

Retarded (I'm fast )

The "it goes both ways is a deflection". How many children a man fathers has absolutely zero to do with how many children a woman bears from multiple partners.

 

[ChrisL]

Lots of screwed up people out there. That does not excuse the men for using these women as baby making machines. I've actually heard of retarded women being knocked up multiple times. Are they to blame? Boy, they must be so stupid.

You really move the goalpost to retarded people?

Ugh.


No one is excusing the men, we are just pointing out that the women are either stupid or don't care.

Exactly, with some of you men here, it is always the women's faults.

They bear responsibility for their actions, again in modern society the "innocent flower" defense doesn't cut it. You gals got equality, now all of a sudden you seem to want to give some of it back up.

Sorry, no refunds.

Ohhhh. Lol. So THAT is what this is all about. Who said that they do NOT bear responsibility? I am stating that the men are just as much and, in some situations (when it's involving teens and very young adults), it can be MORE the man's fault because he will lie and manipulate. True story. That has NOTHING to do with equality.

Your posts seem to lean towards the "innocent flower" theory.
and blaming the men doesn't remove the fact that the consequences are born by the woman, usually because the type of man who does this is an uncaring cad.

Therefore doesn't it make sense to tell our young women that ******* around with these guys is a bad idea?

Sure, but some don't have such luxuries. There are plenty of kids (teens) out there that no one cares about and that are taken advantage of. I'm sorry, but there are men out there who, in particular, like and prefer sex with teen girls and will say and do anything to get it too, and it is not as unusual as you might think. A lot of unplanned pregnancies are the result of troubled young girls without such role models in their lives who believe the lies that older men will tell them, so in those circumstances, I would say the men who do such things really need to take the brunt of responsibility for that type of behavior.

And who is teaching our boys not to treat women that way as well? Fathers should be talking with their sons too.

 

[ChrisL]

I'm sorry, I am not pro abortion, but I fail to see your point, considering we are speaking of women who decided to KEEP their children and now are getting a bad rap for that too. Perhaps THAT is why they get abortions?

Being pro abortion isn't the point. You trying to lay blame for these woman's choices on men in today's world is a fools game.

We are no longer living by the strict standards that once were as a society. We wanted all the perks and we got them. Gone are the days we can whine because he done us wrong

When men impregnate teens (which are a LARGE portion of single moms, which is what we are talking about), then yes, they are more to blame than the teen girl. When men lie to get with women, then, yes, they are more to blame than the woman for believing their lies. Perhaps she is stupid, but the men in such circumstances are deceitful and wrong.

In any other instance, both need to take responsibility for their actions. They BOTH decided to have sex consensual, so one is not more to blame than the other. The man is just as capable of keeping his penis in his pants.

I've tried to follow the entire thread so when you changed the topic I missed it with teens. I caught the retarded girls deflection and that one made me laugh.

You again deliberately miss the point. She and only she has the choice to bring the life into this world. You're yesteryear pretense that she is an innocent is wacked. And the thread is why woman do this, not why guys do it. It isn't that difficult to separate the two.

Retired girls? Sorry, I don't know what you are talking about. I am simply stating that multiple children and "whoriness" goes both ways. It's really not fair, IMO, to say "why do women ALLOW men to . . . " The men made decisions here too. They are not retards . . . I hope.

Retarded (I'm fast )

The "it goes both ways is a deflection". How many children a man fathers has absolutely zero to do with how many children a woman bears from multiple partners.

How so? Explain that please. There are also many men who father multiple children, and the women are getting pregnant by men, correct?

 

[NLT]

Actually some woman like having children for the sake of having children. They think they will fill a void and provide them a family they may not find otherwise. My sister, 20 years your senior, was one of them. My brother married a woman like this....it didn't turn out well. I don't agree with it and haven't seen it as a heathy way to rear kids , but it is what it is. I completely understand your pov.

I'm one of 7 from a two parent but unstable home, so I suspect it comes from feeling of being unloved and lost themselves growing up.

From what I see from women my age or younger they are ok having the kids for the extra benefits, (WIC, TANF) etc and the child support, the kids are a means to end in alot of cases.

I cant believe some liberal progressive has not called you a racist yet, HG