I think many of the forum's Whites are so damned defensive, sensitive and whiney because those are attributes that are valued in sensitively, defensive, whiney white communities.
Where is this community? Whites by and large are busy apologizing for being white, not being "whiny". I guess that's a form of whiny, but not what you're talking about.
Also, is anyone here denying that BLACKS don't fucking flip their 'fro's at the slightest of slights? Ross Perot get shot down because he said "you people." Blacks don't even know what they want to be CALLED... I think when it comes to racial oversensitivity, whites are way behind.
After a history of slights, no slight should go unchallenged because some people can be racial offensive out of ignorance because they don't know they are being such.
Just like you ?