The options presented are flawed.
What's best for the mental well-being of those involved? Whereas the biblical Paul had said something to the effect of 'though all things may be lawful, not all things are profitable'...
I say that I do not have a problem with either... keeping in mind, however, that even the most spiritually minded individual should not 'kill themselves with righteousness'... these things are for my own reasoning... I do NOT wish to preach and pull at an audience who does not wish to hear. These are some of the things I keep in mind for myself and for my own decision-making process.