☭proletarian☭;1826036 said:
love my child, and want another one,
Are you going to tell them you killed the first one so you could save up enough money for a new iPod?
The iPod Touch or Nano? I mean, id vehemently support my girlfriend having a 9th month abortion if I could 64 gigabit iPod Touch or a PS3 or a 40"+ inch Samsung 1080p 120Hz LCD TV. Seriously though, that all stuff is cooler than a baby.
Huh???
Who said anything about buying myself anything? This is about having money to buy food, clothing, and paying bills for his needs. I can't afford two kids.
And I do not have an iPod, or a fancy phone, or house, or anything like that. My van is 14 years old. My son gets plenty to eat, and we have a place to live, and adequate clothes to wear, along with proper medical and dental care.
If I had another kid, I would be on all kinds of welfare.. I just don't want that.. I want to wait until I am financially prepared for another munchkin.
I think the "Breath of Life" arguement advanced as the point where the baby becomes a human is inane. I think a better determining factor would be the point of viability and where a substantial majority of fetuses have the ability to survive outside the womb, which is around weeks 25 and 26. As the pregnancy progresses a woman should lose some autonomy when it comes to her abortion options unless her life is in danger due to complications.
So, she has autonomy as long as she is in grave danger... just not if she doesn't, based on some fetuses surviving for a certain amount of time, after a certain number of weeks gestation???
So, since my son was about to destroy me when I was actually IN LABOR, then I had the option, in your opinion, to abort???
What the bloody fuck is that all about. So subjective.. Anyone this subjective about this topic is clearly speaking in terms of their own emotional kneejerk response to the issue, rather than using logic and actually being objective about it. I meant no offense by that, either.
Heres a scenario: a child is born premature at 25 weeks and his unable to breath on his own. Clearly, at this point the "my body my choice" argument goes out the window. So can a man actually have a "kill his premature baby thats 90 percent likely to survive but cant breath on its own" kind of abortion? I mean its out but it can only survive if its hooked up to machines. I think its a tradgedy if I couldnt because I have it on good authority from the fetus itself that it would rather die than be hooked up to life support.
If it is not in her body anymore, then no- there is no property right being infringed upon, anymore.
But, having life support is everyone's personal option.. It is not a requirement, and for a woman who has a life inside of her, I think she has the right to decide whether or not to "pull the plug", on her biological "life support" so to speak- which, in my fact based opinion is really only growth support until the fetus is born, and becomes an infant.
So, in your scenario, if the premature baby is born and cannot breathe on it's own, then yes it is both of the parent's decision on whether they allow it to even BEGIN life support treatment. And, just like our currently failing baby boomer population has it, they can also decide to take that baby off of life support, too. Those are just the facts of life.
Scuse the pun.