The fact is that there is absolutely NO genetic, or biological distinction between those who claim to be homosexuals; which amounts to nothing more than one who chooses to obsess upon a sexual desire for those fo their own gender.
I want to make sure that I understand this correctly: you are saying that gays and lesbians choose to be this way? Fair enough. Many people believe this. I don't.
You can believe that if you flap your arms you'll fly like an eagle... as long as you don't go to form coalitions to encourage congress to pass laws that promote the idea that flapping your arms will provide that you will fly like an eagle. Because the fact is, flapping your arms will result in many things... but flying like an eagle isn't one of them.
Like wise, believing that homosexuals have no choice in with whom they have sex... doesn't actually remove their choice; as is believing that the absence of a genetic distinction, that succumbing to an instinct, craving or any other influence is a result of a choice. You want to excuse the succumbing to the craving... Doesn't work for fags any more than it works for pedophiles, livestock fuckers or chronic masterbaters, mass murderers, klepto's, arsen's or any of the litanny of those who rationalize their needs supercede the rights and interests of another.
Why would anyone CHOOSE a lifestyle that is so difficult?
Weak moral character... It's the same for those who choose to enage in that which will certainly result in their being incarcerated for the rest of their lives; they failed to recognize and respect the responsibilities inherent in the human rights; thus set their 'need' to satisfy their cravings, or needs... over the well being of others.
Look up the statistics of gays and lesbians who drink or abuse drugs. It's HARD to live this way.
Yeah... they've made poor choices; that tends to result in hard lives.
Many of their families and friends reject them.
Yeah... I have a cousin who killed another cousin, who just happened to be his brother.
I've rejected him... and his queer brother. Again... poor decisions tend to result in rejection.
Many of them will never have children.
Wow... who could imagine that self absorbtion would result in such?
They have to deal with being reminded daily of how "different" or "odd" they are....the stares when they are together (even if they aren't showing affection, most people have "gaydar")...many religions condemn them to hell. There are so many reasons why gays and lesbians would not choose this lifestyle.
Yeah... that's the nature of being abnormal... it tends towards being 'different.'
Now imagine how people who can't help being what makes them different... A 7' tall person can't decide to not engage in tallness... A 3' tall midget can't decide to be of average height... A quadropolegic can't just decide to go for a walk and hug their children for a shame. In contrast to the lowly homosexual who decides to succumb to their abnormal cravings... thus deciding to be different; thus bringing upon themselves, their own problems.