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Frankly, you have no right to push your religious beliefs on others and the government is forbidden to consider your religion in making lawsHomosexuals are making the decision to get married
The federal government is merely accepting that decision
Dear rightwinger it's more than that.
If it was kept under religious freedom and all marriage was practiced in private
where only the NEUTRAL "civil custody/estate agreements" were processed through govt
then it would equal for all sides.
The problem is that benefits and naming the SOCIAL relationship between parties
is NOT agreed upon religiously. This is not just a nominal disagreement, such as
people who don't believe in celebrating Christmas or MLK day but not enough to fight it legally.
The issue of same sex marriage actually VIOLATES people's religious beliefs
similar to making Muslims eat pork or Hindus eat beef.
Three ways I imagine this can be resolved both require ACKNOWLEDGING this imposition.
1. either separate marriage and benefits by state and party and let people work it out so they
do not feel "forced by federal govt" to endorse same sex marriage through the state (which is
also a secondary VIOLATION of Constitutional beliefs that federal govt is not authorized to impose this)
NOTE: I don't disagree with same sex marriage to the same degree as Christians do who are religiously opposed, but I DO DISAGREE on the second level of violation where it is AGAINST CONSTITUTIONAL BELIEFS for federal govt especially courts to make such a decision instead of respecting citizens consent on this issue of faith based beliefs. I would argue all the way to the top if I found a lawyer who would be willing to back the CONSTITUTIONAL argument without depending on the Christian argument; but the only lawyers or law firms with the support to pursue any such arguments legally appear to depend on the Christian argument that loses because it is equally faith based.
2. or possibly call a TRUCE between the religious and secular camps and agree to stop ALL lawsuits and legislation over ALL issues of beliefs, and allow all of them to be endorsed and instituted through govt
including Christmas, cross and prayer references if you are going to include homosexuality and same sex marriage.
3. agree to EQUAL funding: instead of removing Planned Parenthood from govt funds, agree that dollar for dollar equal funds will go to the Nurturing Network another nonprofit to provide alternatives to women to PREVENT abortion. allow EQUAL funding and taxpayer choices of free market health care instead of restricting ACA exemptions to just insurance only and govt only. allow EQUAL funding of medical research on spiritual healing of cancer and other diseases for every dollar spent on either marijuana research or stem cell research, etc.
None of these possible solutions can even take place without first recognizing that equal beliefs were not protected by govt but violated by overreaching with these decisions that were biased by faith based beliefs.
I find it very peculiar if I am the only progressive liberal Democrat even venturing to argue that
Constitutional limits were breached.
If no other Democrats are able to see or make this argument, then something is wrong with the party, like a cult that is deliberately omitting information such as knowledge and access to spiritual healing and is basically being abused to "conspire to violate equal civil rights" by denying knowledge of the law to people.
Very strange. The Constitutional protections of people's personal beliefs is supposed to apply to ALL people,
not just defend the beliefs of party members under party platforms.
I would argue this is a form of discrimination by CREED
and where it creeps into govt and laws/rulings are made based on this discrimination by partisan CREED
that is ALSO a Constitutional violation.
My final assessment of this issue
A. the root argument about same sex marriage and orientation is a TIE
both sides are equally faith based, so govt should not be abused to favor one belief over the other.
I don't agree with using majority rule to decide this, but if people agree with
a govt decision, I will agree with that and go with that decision for that person.
If someone contests I will equally defend that person's right not to be subject to an unfair law
but to find a way to settle the dispute that both sides agree on.
B. the secondary argument that it is unconstitutional for govt to make a decision
for people that violate the beliefs of one side or the other
I WILL agree that is is a violation and that it affects both sides
C. the third level argument that discrimination is going on by partisan creed
and colluding with govt and political officials to impose biased decisions based on faith
I WILL agree this is a violation and that it affects both sides
I am NOT against people pursuing and practicing same sex marriage.
But the other two levels of violations by abusing govt and also political party to abuse govt,
YES I argue those two levels of abuses are unconstitutional and violate
the VERY principles the Democrats and liberals use for their own arguments.
So this is dangerous and damaging to people on all sides, it weakens both the
arguments for prochoice and for separation of church and state both championed by Democrats and liberals.
I find it distressing to be one of the few prochoice liberals
with knowledge of spiritual healing and willingness to point out
that the push for laws that "go too far" violate Democratic principles
of prochoice arguments against govt intruding on personal health care decisions
and of secular arguments to keep personal and collective beliefs out of govt.
Very sad! To be a minority among minorities. Flabbergasting if not frustrating.
And I am not against same sex marriage but believe it would be fully and equally protected
by keeping these decisions out of govt. Where am I going to find support for that???
Your religion is under no obligation to perform same sex marriage. You can marry someone of either sex...it is your choice
Is this a great country or what
^^^ That ^^^
Dear Seawytch Your bias is showing again.
Please do NOT confuse me with or accuse me of supporting arguments I oppose equally
for the same reasons. It is just as unconstitutional to try to BAN or DENY same sex marriage
through the govt as it is to ESTABLISH and ENDORSE, because the First Amendment
goes both ways and the Fourteenth Amendment protects beliefs equally on both sides from discrimination by creed.
Seawytch my viewpoint is different, as I can explain better using the prolife/prochoice positions.
I am prochoice and believe abortion cannot be criminalized or illegalized
because it will punish the woman more than the man, and the men are either equally responsible
for the decision to have sex, or more responsible in the case of rape or coercion in general.
However, I believe the prolife BELIEFS should be equally respected, protected and represented by law.
So if prolife people believe abortion is murder and cannot be legalized without violating their beliefs,
then laws need to be rewritten to neither favor or exclude prolife or prochoice
but be NEUTRAL and satisfy people of BOTH beliefs.
That still makes me prochoice even though I defend the right
of prolife people to reform laws so they don't feel their beliefs are imposed upon or violated.
SAME WITH THE MARRIAGE LAWS.
I don't have to be anti gay or against gay marriage
to argue for the right of people to CONSENT to laws
that involve faith based beliefs on both sides.
I am arguing BOTH SIDES ARE WRONG INCLUDING THE
CHRISTIAN if they push or pass laws that violate or deny the
beliefs and protections of people of the other belief.
So that's what makes my argument different.
I and both DEFENDING and ADMONISHING BOTH SIDES
if the laws passed do not protect and represent people of all beliefs
as I am arguing that Constitutional standards require of GOVT.