I can say something inciteful and it may make you feel a certain way. But the onus is on you as to how you feel and how you behave.
Bottom line is: your feelings and behavior is your responsibility, not mine!
Put another way, I am not responsible for how you feel. And, neither is Trump.
When I say that the solutions are not legal, I am agreeing that Trump is not responsible for the bombings. Nor do I think that he is responsible for anyone's feelings, although it's unclear why you are even bringing feelings up, since I didn't mention anyone's feelings. Nor am I interested in holding Trump directly responsible in any moral or legal way.
However, I am interested in how political leaders contribute to the overall health of our Democracy, and I think it's a problem when our leaders' rhetoric contributes -- even in a mostly small and symbolic way -- towards that erosion. But the way we deal with that sort of problem is via social norms, expressed in political action and voting. Trump may not be responsible for anyone's reactions, but nor should he be shielded from the consequences of his words (and actions) as far as those words (and actions) influence whether people support him or not.