I haven't been unemployed ever. I've been my own boss since i was in my early twenties.
And I tend to agree with the coddled pussies estimation of most college grads.
So you don't really know how it is in many job markets. People hiring in many jobs like to fit everybody in little boxes and indeed look at what most of us would appear to be petty bullshit in making decisions about who to hire.
Really, every jobs finding site, career advice I get, is that with PhD, you don't just apply for jobs. You have to know people, network, get your job by who you know, not so much what your resume is like
There are so many misconceptions about PhD like they ahve been in academia too long, too independent, dont' have street smarts, etc. But I don't fit into that mold which frustrates the hell out of me
But I have a plan and I think by the summer all my hard work will finally pay off