All FLOTUS have control. Its what happens when you get married. Your wife practically takes over and makes decisions. Its easier just to let them have their way and wisely pick your battles.
Not in the way Hillary did, and you know it. There are plenty of arguments you could make without clinging to intellectual dishonesty. You should try it sometime.
I have no insight on what Hillary did or didnt do and neither do you.
Except yes, I do, because it's a matter of public record.
My point is that I know she had major influence on decisions and I'm ok with that because thats what wives do.
Again, you're ascribing the usual marriage-related influence of a couple on each other to Bill and Hillary, which is inappropriate in this case. Their marriage isn't a marriage in the way you're trying so desperately to portray. They come with pre-set agendas that have nothing to do with each other, except that they work together to achieve them.
And this is a serious question: How old are you? And if you were an adult during the Bill Clinton years, did you pay any attention at all?