I didn't get you pregnant. You are not my responsibility. Your pregnancy could have been avoided. Condoms are very inexpensive and I have never had even one of them to fail. Yes, folks should be responsible for their actions instead of putting the responsibility for their failures on the taxpayer.
Yes, I used my GI Bill to get an education. Thousands of young men and women are doing the very same thing today. I earned my GI Bill. It was part of my employment package. I left my right arm and half my shoulder on the Cambodian Border. I paid my just dues. Your problems were caused by yourself - not by me.
Problems? My pregnancies weren't "problems". I was married, employed, and we owned our home. The timing was off, but the pregnancies weren't problems. I was simply pointing out that birth control isn't always as easy as men think it is. One of my daughters is allergic to latex, so condoms are out, and she has the same problem with hormone based birth control as I do.
There is nothing no arrogant or as lacking in compassion as someone who has overcome all of their difficulties. But you had a lot of help. Your surgery and your recovery after you were wounded were provided for you "as part of your employment contract", by people who were trained using taxpayer money, in a hospital/rehab facility paid for with taxpayer dollars, and then you went to school on taxpayer dollars.
Of course, you "earned" it. But so do others, and you didn't do it all by yourself, no matter what you think.
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Just as there is nothing so disgraceful as shirking one's own responsibilities for the choices one makes. I supported my family and sent three kids to college. I don't need to pay for anyone else's kids to go to college and I don't need to pay for some idiot to have an abortion either.
Where, in this story, did I shirk my responsibilities? No where. I worked from the time I took my first part time job in high school, until I retired, and then I unretired, went back to work for two more years, until I retired for good this year at age 66. I raised three children, my two oldest as a single mother after my divorce, until I remarried 6 years later.
People are responsible for their choices. But when I went to school, my tuition was $2,000 a year, not $20,000. At the time, the economy was strong and parents could afford to help their kids. Things have changed. Manufacturing jobs are gone so many parents are no longer able to help with their kids' education.
The economy has 5,000,000 jobs it cannot fill. Other countries, which are far more successful than the US, are giving free university to their people. While Americans are dividing by race, and reluctant to help their fellow citizens, your country will continue to slide in the quality of life categories.
Your country is fractured in so many ways. United you stand. Divided, and it's going to get worse.