I personally don't like arguments in which you could replace the word gay with things like black and make the same point. I've argued DADT to allow them to live their own life and I see no reason they need to tell other then as a political statement. That argument cannot be used for "black." But from your argument, shouldn't you as a member of a team not pass judgment for doing things that don't affect you in any way? What kind of a teammate are you when you do that?
Kaz, I have always been considered a respected, reliable team mate. That is an earned reputation. How about you?
I believe that gays should be allowed to lead their own lives in a law abiding manner in the civilian sector. That is their right as U.S. Citizens. However serving in the military isn't a right. Military service is a privilege that demands high standards. Sexual deviance is not an acceptable standard. The privilage of military service is refused for many reasons. Sexual deviance is just one of those reasons. Kaz, I think that if you truly understood the impact of team concept in the military you and I wouldn't be having this conversation.
One last thing where did this black thing come from. I've served with black soldiers that I counted as my friends, and whom I would trust with my life. They in turn would trust me with theirs. We called these folks soldiers. They were only given a color component when dealt with narrow minded civilians. Is this black thing a desperate, racist attempt to deflect attention away from the fact that sexual deviants shouldn't be serving openly in the military?
Have a nice day.
First on the black that was an analogy, I was in no way calling you a racist. I'm saying though that someone who didn't like blacks could make the same argument you did about homosexuals. It would be disruptive. The difference is that when gays are gay, they do not in any way affect you. I see no reason they need to go around in the military saying they are gay, and I see no reason you have to pass judgment on what they do in private between consenting adults calling them sexual deviants. Why don't you practice your own morality and leave others to theirs? Especially your teammates.
As for your comments on sexual deviants what about heterosexuals who have oral or anal sex? What if they have a threesome? What about pre-marital sex? Are those sexual deviants too? If so, shall we ferret them out too? How do we decide? I have no issue with gays, I do have an issue with impeding the military by driving social issues through it and that is what I see the left doing here. In the end, if you are going to alienate people like me who actually want to support you doing your mission and keeping social agendas out of it, you'd better get used to gays openly fighting along side you.
I expect gays to keep their agenda out of it, but I expect you to keep yours out as well and focus on the mission, defending your country. I don't want to pick, I want politics out of it. But if you're saying I have to, you aren't going to like the outcome. I just want you both to keep your business to yourselves that isn't military.