Oh so close, actually I don't care what your conclusions are because you have nothing of substance with which to support them with. I give you half a point for a rim shot though.
I have nothing of substance to support my conclusions? I've been quite clear about my arguments. One person's son is not representative of the entire US military. The military is an institution that is supposed to protect freedom. Soldiers are supposed to be ready and willing to risk life and limb to protect each other and save each other if necessary. Many gay people have served in the military admirably. HIV infects people of all sexual orientations and there is no evidence that gay people in the combat zone are more likely than straight people to be HIV positive. All the arguments about gay soldiers possibly being infected with HIV are exclusively levied against men only to the exclusion of providing any argument regarding gay women serving in the military. The kinds of relationship and sexual practices that exist within the military are not comparable to civilian populations, thus statistics from civilian populations are not applicable to the military population. Those same practices create at least as great a risk of straight male soldiers contracting HIV than gay soldiers, if not moreso. The leaders of our military have gone on record as saying that repealing DADT won't harm our military.
All those things being considered, I conclude that there is no meaningful concern among military personnel regarding the repeal of DADT outside of prejudice and bias, and that there is no meaningful harm that it will cause. If you consider that to be absent of substance, then you're either completely incapable of rational thought, or you're simply too determined to not see it.