When was the last time you came in contact with a trans person in the wild? How is your life worse or better for it?The thing is, there's a group of men that think they're women, and vice versa. So why don't they just seamlessly blend in? They stand out like a sore thumb, like watching a panto. And the issue is, most folk were raised not to lie, and the tiny group you refer too want us to go along with their lies. I've always gone along with compassion for them because I've always said they require psychological help and treatment. Accepting and going along with lies is not compassion, that's just stupidity, it's not helping them. So if you want to show them compassion, help them to find psychiatric treatment.
How about you just try being a decent person? Your job isnt to cure anyone. I am not trying to cure you of your psychological problems. Should I?