Does it really bother you that much that queers can legally marry?
Yes. And you didn't win this issue democratically, you forced it with the courts, just like abortion. So it's not legitimate, and never will be.
Wrong.
The United States is a Constitutional Republic, not a democracy, whose citizens are subject solely to the rule of law, not men; as men are incapable of ruling justly – measures prohibiting gay Americans from marrying and denying women their right to privacy in violation of the 14th Amendment are proof of that.
In our Constitutional Republic citizens’ rights and protected liberties are not subject to ‘popular vote,’ whether one has his inalienable right or not isn’t subject to ‘majority rule,’ the ‘majority’ has no authority whatsoever to decide who will or will not have his rights and protected liberties.
Citizens’ rights are immune from unwarranted attack by government, from unwarranted government interference, regardless what the ‘majority’ might want.
The American people are first and foremost citizens of the United States, residents of their states subordinate to that, where one does not forfeit his rights merely as a consequence of his state of residence, and where the states have no right to deny the American citizens residing in the states their protected liberties.
As a settled and accepted fact of Constitutional law the states were wrong to deny women their right to privacy, as a fact of settled and accepted Constitutional law the states were wrong to deny same-sex couples their right to equal protection of the law.
When the people err and enact measures repugnant to the Constitution, those wrongfully disadvantaged have the right to seek relief in Federal court, and have those measures invalidated because they are in fact un-Constitutional, such as compelling a woman to give birth against her will through force of law, and denying gay Americans access to marriage law they’re eligible to participate in for no other reason than who they are.