Requesting I spend a day in a black neighborhood is a good indication that you do not see a problem. And I don't see it from a distance, I see it in everyday life.
Your "medicine" can only work when it's used. And so far it is not being used. What have you done to encourage change?
Also the "stereotypes I believe to be true" are in fact true, you just describe them as negative generational cycles.
I don't run from my past, I embrace it and use it to educate those that I see following that path. The experiences I gained have helped me more than it hurt me.
Your last sentence makes you sound ridiculous and I've heard it before, things like I don't know what's like because I'm not black. To this I say bullshit! I don't need to be black to understand the plight of blacks and the cause for their plight. Hell anyone of any color with half a mind can see the problems. But, if you insist that I can't "understand what goes on in these communitities (sp) " then go ahead and believe that.
First of all, I did not "request" that you spend "your time" time anywhere. It is not incumbent upon me to suggest where you spend your time. I merely illustrated the fact that your assumption that I "don't get it" (whatever that means) is off base.
Secondly, for you to ask me "what I have one to encourage change" when I clearly stated where I spend my time and resources makes no sense, especially since I posted a statement regarding that. The issues that exist in some predominately black neighborhoods did not begin yesterday or last week,Nor even last year, so generational cycles DO in fact play a part in many cases, and if you do not understand that, you know a lot less than you "think" you do.
I will still say that you are not qualified to understand what is working and what is not, because you are not involved in seeking solutions one on one WITH those who need them, and that is not because you are white.
Frankly, I would not care if you WERE black, but if you were not present and in front of the problems that exist, I would still say you were misinformed, and I have told numerous black people that as well.
An example to what I am saying is that I would not try to tell you what life is like behind bars, because I have not been there, never spent a day or night there, and therefore could not understand it as you do. So let's not play the race game.
There are in fact a number of white people who I personally respect, that are on the same board as I am, who actually venture into the same communitities and donate their time and resources as well.
Lastly, you are right. I am entitled to think as I wish, just as you are. If your way of contributing to the change of an issue that YOU claim to understand, and wish to do so from a distance, that is your choice. Just as it is mine to do it the way that I wish.
Hopefully that clarifies your misconceptions once and for all.