The Dirty Little Secret: Most Gay Couples Aren't Monogamous

[saintmichaeldefendthem]

Gotta love how obsessed the Christian Right moral crusade is with gay sex. All they seem to have on their minds is gay sex all the time. Makes you wonder after a while if what really pisses off some of our Republican friends is that they're too ashamed to come out of the closet.

Yes....anyone who disagrees with homosexuality must be gay themselves. Nobody has ever said that before.

 

[daws101]

The only reason they wanted homo marriage...to *normalize* depraved behavior, and to control the church. And by control, I mean penalize, criminalize and close.

look up in the sky !
it's a bird!
it a flying horse!
it's a guy in a dress and a crown !
it's jesus man!

 

[Esmeralda]

The queers claimed the wanted to legalize gay marriage so they could participate in a committed relationship. The truth is they only wanted the government benefits and a veneer of respectability that their relationships don't merit.

Most gay couples aren t monogamous Will straight couples go monogamish

The dirty little secret about gay marriage: Most gay couples are not monogamous. We have come to accept lately, partly thanks to Liza Mundy’s excellent recent cover story in the Atlantic and partly because we desperately need something to make the drooping institution of heterosexual marriage seem vibrant again, that gay marriage has something to teach us, that gay couples provide a model for marriages that are more egalitarian and less burdened by the old gender roles that are weighing marriage down these days.

But the thorny part of the gay marriage experiment is sex, and more precisely, monogamous sex. Mundy writes about an old study from the '80s that found that gay couples were extremely likely to have had sex outside their relationship—82 percent did. That was before AIDS and the great matrimony craze in the gay community. She also tells the story of Dan Savage, who started out wanting to be monogamous until he and his partner had kids, and then they loosened up on that in order to make their union last. “Monogamish” is what he calls his new model. But as Mundy asks, can anyone out there imagine a husband proposing that same deal to his pregnant wife?

A long Gawker story last week explored this problem in greater detail. In the fight for marriage equality, the gay rights movement has put forth couples that look like straight ones, together forever, loyal, sharing assets. But what no one wants to talk about is that they don’t necessarily represent the norm:

"The Gay Couples Study out of San Francisco State University—which, in following over 500 gay couples over many years is the largest on-going study of its kind—has found that about half of all couples have sex with someone other than their partner, with their partner knowing."​

Hey, guess what: most heterosexual couples aren't monogamous either.

They almost always get divorced the minute they get caught, so that doesn't last long.

WRONG!! "Monogamy Myth, showed that 86 percent of couples who discussed one partner's affair were still married" www.menshealth.com/sex-women/6-signs-shes-thinking-cheating

 

[koshergrl]

Gotta love how obsessed the Christian Right moral crusade is with gay sex. All they seem to have on their minds is gay sex all the time. Makes you wonder after a while if what really pisses off some of our Republican friends is that they're too ashamed to come out of the closet.

Yeah that must be it.

 

[Bombur]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

 

[daws101]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death? ......

then just like now the bible is fiction..

 

[daws101]

Funny how brit pat claims to be so in touch with the gay community.

When have I claimed that?

when have you not?

I have never claimed it, moron.

see post #53.

I'm not the author of that post, moron.

nje

Funny how brit pat claims to be so in touch with the gay community.

When have I claimed that?

when have you not?

I have never claimed it, moron.

see post #53.

I'm not the author of that post, moron.

never said you were ....but it's is a spot on description of you

 

[saintmichaeldefendthem]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Yes, any disagreement with the homosexual lifestyle is hate. Nobody's ever said that before you.

 

[daws101]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

sex is not a sin...

 

[daws101]

Gotta love how obsessed the Christian Right moral crusade is with gay sex. All they seem to have on their minds is gay sex all the time. Makes you wonder after a while if what really pisses off some of our Republican friends is that they're too ashamed to come out of the closet.

but fill up the men's room!

 

[Bombur]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Yes, any disagreement with the homosexual lifestyle is hate. Nobody's ever said that before you.

If that disagreement is due to a failure of someone to love their neighbor as themselves then yes. If not then no.

 

[daws101]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Yes, any disagreement with the homosexual lifestyle is hate. Nobody's ever said that before you.

everything you've ever said has been said before and said better.
what's your point?

 

[Sunni Man]

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Pretending that a fudge packer can be a Christians is a sin. ......

 

[koshergrl]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

And you try not to do those things.

However to embrace sinfulness and to proclaim that it's okay is an affront to God, at least according to the bible. We all sin, but we don't take the stance "Yeah we sin and we're going to keep doing it because we like it." That's an indication that you aren't really saved..and it's also tempting God.

 

[BULLDOG]

The queers claimed the wanted to legalize gay marriage so they could participate in a committed relationship. The truth is they only wanted the government benefits and a veneer of respectability that their relationships don't merit.

Most gay couples aren t monogamous Will straight couples go monogamish

The dirty little secret about gay marriage: Most gay couples are not monogamous. We have come to accept lately, partly thanks to Liza Mundy’s excellent recent cover story in the Atlantic and partly because we desperately need something to make the drooping institution of heterosexual marriage seem vibrant again, that gay marriage has something to teach us, that gay couples provide a model for marriages that are more egalitarian and less burdened by the old gender roles that are weighing marriage down these days.

But the thorny part of the gay marriage experiment is sex, and more precisely, monogamous sex. Mundy writes about an old study from the '80s that found that gay couples were extremely likely to have had sex outside their relationship—82 percent did. That was before AIDS and the great matrimony craze in the gay community. She also tells the story of Dan Savage, who started out wanting to be monogamous until he and his partner had kids, and then they loosened up on that in order to make their union last. “Monogamish” is what he calls his new model. But as Mundy asks, can anyone out there imagine a husband proposing that same deal to his pregnant wife?

A long Gawker story last week explored this problem in greater detail. In the fight for marriage equality, the gay rights movement has put forth couples that look like straight ones, together forever, loyal, sharing assets. But what no one wants to talk about is that they don’t necessarily represent the norm:

"The Gay Couples Study out of San Francisco State University—which, in following over 500 gay couples over many years is the largest on-going study of its kind—has found that about half of all couples have sex with someone other than their partner, with their partner knowing."​

Hey, guess what: most heterosexual couples aren't monogamous either.

Half of them have sex with others..with the express knowledge of their partner?

Yeah right, lol. You run with that.

HEY EVERYBODY........THAT CRAZY SWASTICA LADY IS BACK!!!

 

[koshergrl]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Yes, any disagreement with the homosexual lifestyle is hate. Nobody's ever said that before you.

Yes, it's racist, too.

 

[Bombur]

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Pretending that fudge packers can be righteous Christians is a sin. ......

It is sad to me that you would choose hate and ignorance over loving your neighbor as yourself like Christ commanded you to but we are all sinners.

 

[G.T.]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

And you try not to do those things.

However to embrace sinfulness and to proclaim that it's okay is an affront to God, at least according to the bible. We all sin, but we don't take the stance "Yeah we sin and we're going to keep doing it because we like it." That's an indication that you aren't really saved..and it's also tempting God.

And you wishing death on people means YOU arent really saved by your own standard, numbskull

 

[Moonglow]

You can be both Christian and openly gay.

What about the part of the Bible that says sodomite's are going to Hell and should be stoned to death. ......

Or the part of the NEW TESTAMENT that says that once you've accepted Christ you're supposed to at least make an effort to *sin no more*?

I don't think they are being sinful at all.

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Yes, any disagreement with the homosexual lifestyle is hate. Nobody's ever said that before you.

Yes, it's racist, too.

You can certainly tell you hate Jews.......

 

[daws101]

The hate and ignorance thrown at the gay community is the sin. Hiding your hate behind Jesus is a sin. Failing to love your neighbor as yourself is a sin.

Pretending that a fudge packer can be a Christians is a sin. ......

false
pretending to have a religion to control women is a crime....