I find the story terribly sad. It would have been better to have not said anything than to have done this. I believe we should honor our parents no matter what their sins against us were. That is what forgiveness is for and to write such a lengthy hateful memorial to a man who was your father, what message does that send your grandchildren, friends and family members?
I second this and I am actually in the same boat as whoever did the writing. My dad is a word that I can't say, but even I wouldn't write such a thing about him because at the end of the day, what difference would it make? It wouldn't be any kind of a game changer because death means that a person's game is over!
God bless you always!!!
Holly
P.S. In my opinion, my dad wouldn't be worth the space anyway.