I may lean that way myself. Just found out about all this today. Have not completely made up my mind. Not sure exactly what the ripple effects are yet. Concerned at least in the short term that could rip apart families. Families are already struggling. All ready enough division and derision in this world. Maybe that would be the straw. I don't know but yes I believe a man should know the true situation he is living in. It would be a shame to live a life of great responsibility and not have any true heirs. Feels a bit like slavery to me.
i don't think joseph of bethlehem considered it "slavery," but i'm sure he rolled around some nights wondering.