No one has the power to hurt you unless you give it to them, Sweetness. People that know you and care about you here are not going to be swayed by flaming losers sitting behind a keyboard spewing shit that they would never say to anyone's face. They do it to get a reaction. Back in my mid and late 20's, I would get pulled into working security at events by some of my gym buddies that did it for a living and needed extra help. Basically I was there to stop potential conflicts between drunk patrons that didn't know when to say when.....they would do everything that they could to provoke a fight as I was guiding them out of the area.......I heard it all...I was a pussy, I was this, I was that, blah, blah, blah. I knew that I could drop them if I had to but I knew it was just the booze talking that was making them act that way. I sure wouldn't want someone to beat the shit out of me if I was messed up and simply talking trash....it's just words. Internet forums can be like a night at a wild party...people get emotionally drunk especially if they get a posse behind them. I call it "dog-piling" and it has happened to me many times over the 16 years I have been blogging...no big deal. Real time versus cyber time is no comparison. I got your back though and will gladly step into the fray...I have broad shoulders....hugs ya.