-Saying that society as a whole has more importance then the individual is logical and how every societal group works. The US as a country is more important than you the individual. It is NOT a sign of socialism, it's not even unique of the human race. In all herd animals for instance, the leader of the pack will put themselves between danger and the rest of the herd. Him or her the individual is less important than the group.Utter bull. Socialism presumes that people have a responsibility to society as a whole. It does not say anything about absolving yourself from responsibility. A society can not function if everybody simply think of themselves. Who would join the military? Become a firefighter? Fund roads? In fact human nature is based on cooperation of groups of people. Without it we wouldn't even have made it beyond cave dwellers.
Socialism demands one place a higher value on Socity’s desires and needs than an individual’s needs.
People CHOOSE to join the military or other public services in a proper society. They choose to bond together and have a say in the Government. If they disagree with decisions, they have the opportunity to leave and go somewhere where people agre with them.
In Socialist societies they are FORCED to join the military. They have little to no say in Government. Often they have no option to leave if they disagree with the Government. The Government tells them what to do, how to do it, when and where. There is no personal responsibility because there are no individuals, there is only the Government/Country.
-No, people choose to get PAID to provide that service. You pay taxes for it. You, at least I hope, acknowledge that you by yourself are incapable of defending yourself from other nation states. That is not immoral but simply sensible. The same is true for building roads, fighting fires, or hundreds of task and services needed to work as a state.
-The US had the draft, do you mean to imply they were socialist at the time? Israel has universal military service, are they Socialist? Conversely China has conscription only in theory. So what do you base that on?