Buyer beware is right. Guy walks into the bar has a few drinks gets blown by beautiful woman who neglected to wear her wedding ring. Guy gets shit kicked out oif him
Guy gets a little action from woman who claims to be on the pill Guy becomes daddy
Girl meets guy on internet who claims to have job - lives in his mothers basement Can she beat the shit out of him?
Moral of the story - don't fuck strangers
Hi Chanel,
1. [/I][/B]Guy gets a little action from married woman:[/I][/B] There should be a natural assumption of risk with any sexual involvement with a stranger. There is absolutely no way of knowing what that woman's "situation is." And the aggressor in that case is an outside party. At the very least the woman was presumably still a woman, the guy not knowing one way or another.
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Guy gets a girl pregnant: Wear a condom, anyway. If she gets pregnant the most that will happen in the worst case scenario is that he will have to deal with the aftermath. He would have some natural apprehension of deception regarding her birth control or at the very least the possibility of defective condoms. This is all after much time as gone by.
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Girl meets what becomes a degenerate on the internet: This above all has to be the most critical of scenarios in terms of let the buyer beware. Anyone can hide behind a screen.
All of your examples are devoid of one thing. Engaging in a sexual act where there was absolutely no assumption of risk in terms of gender. Everything else is inherently possible. The married woman. The woman without birth control, or the male degenerate on the internet posing as Prince Charming.
You would have to be living in the stone age to not at least exercise some measure of precaution in avoiding these situations. And even after the fact, the courts would never prosecute under these circumstances. However, the misapprehension of trust when sex is intended by the same sex of a heterosexual is quite a serious matter. It's sexually abusive to say the least and not a part of any normal expectation one would find in a social setting.
If someone stole your money, wallet, bag, or even cigarettes from you that your were entertaining in a bar or restaurant, and they were caught, they could easily be prosecuted if you file a complaint. Well how much different is it to allow oral sex from someone you thought was a woman, and it turned out to be a man? Consensual sex, in whatever form, encompasses the undertstanding that you believed they were of a certain sex. They went to all lengths to cover their true gender and never disclosed their identity. That is a critical violation of common trust and understanding. Not before.
Anne Marie