That's what it's come down to.
No, what it boils down to is that you believe you have the right to demand services that others do not wish to provide.
You believe that you have the right to force a medical provider to provide a service that he or she has an ethical reason for not wanting to provide.
You must also believe that you have the right to force your garbage man to enter your backyard and clean up the dog shit that you don't want to clean up. After all... he is your servant.
You didn't answer my question about the John and the prostitute who refuses to perform anal sex. Does he have the right to demand she perform that service for him? Under your system he most certainly does.
BTW: I never said, I would not perform any service. If I were a medical provider, I would not perform abortions. Not in a million years. I'm up in the air on emergency contraception. Obviously, you believe you would have the right to force me to perform an abortion for you. You do not respect my right to choose who my patients are or my right to tell you that I will not be your doctor.
That makes you the evil person, not me.
Immie