This question can apply to all places of worship, so mosques, synagogues, hindu temples etc.
Should places or worship be forced to accommodate for gay weddings?
No. Churches and other religious institutions are autonomous and protected by the first amendment. that doesn't mean they have the right to interfere with the constitutional rights of the LGBT community to be married.
Except the fact that a CHURCH is the outward growth of the BIBLE, which is the outward growth of the NEW TESTAMENT which is the seed of CHRISTIANITY.
And in that Bible, in the New Testament, it is told to the faithful of that CHURCH that if they aide or abet the spread of a homosexual culture [see: Jude 1], they will be damned to hell for eternity.
However, in that same passage they are told to extend compassion to INDIVIDUAL homosexuals and their mental sufferings/compulsions. It's just that the
spread of a
homosexual culture into the mainstream is what will get you eternity in the Big Slammer down below.
And what better way to insure your fate than by participating in granting homosexuals the right to marry? Marriage is the seat, the hub, the kernel the nexus of human culture. So if you promote gay marriage, you are promoting your own doom in the christian world, their CHURCH.
So....*drum roll* [I love the smooth progression of logical thinking]....if you force a church to participate in gay marriages, you have simply, totally, completely and effectively removed christians' rights to practice the religion of their choice. To PRACTICE the religion of their choice, not just give it lip service and bend every which way with the latest winds of strange and heretical subcultural fads....