There is no need to normalize mentally disturbed/sexually confused individuals. Concentrate on teaching children not to bully others and to treat others with kindness and to pity those who are disturbed on whatever level.
I don't know that he is in any way sexually confused, nor do I know if he is particularly mentally disturbed. Not everyone considers homosexuals to be either of those things. I don't know nearly enough of this guy as an individual to make that sort of judgement.
Although I'm certainly not a fan of that tuxedo dress thing.