Any developmental issues (including questions about gender identity) by a student to a teacher should be directed to the school counselor and parents.
When students are reluctant to let their parents know what is going on at school (being bullied, for instance, when the student doesnβt want his dad to know because he says his dad will think heβs a wimp-it happens) itβs harder to figure out the best course for the student.
It should always be about whatβs best for the kid over all politicalized gender
BS, but sadly, like this case, it doesnβt mean itβs happening.
In general, secrets are never a good thing regardless of where they come from or who is told to keep the secret. Unfortunately, it brings to mind about family secrets that involve incest where the kids are instructed never to tell. Schools should not make βsecret pact policiesβ period.