Why would you hit someone for any other reason than anger? Hitting is a sure sign that the hitter has lost control.
Amen hallelujah sister.
You should see me losing control in the car trying to hit behind me. It amuses everyone (but me). I'm dead serious. My flailing usually hurts me worse than anyone, since it's quite easy for the children to dodge the blows. While laughing, the sadists.
That is a whooping done out of anger. I guess I was lucky, I have not had to spank my kids but once or twice in there live.
Yes it certainly is.
I get angry just thinking about it, cuz it generally goes like this...
We are in the car headed for a destination that is naturally several hundred miles away, as we are several hundred miles away from ALL destinations...
I have The Talk with the kids before the trip, carefully map out the experience, make sure they have gone to the bathroom, eaten or been given their snacks to take, their books, their toys, whatever....we talk about how important it is for me to focus on the road, and what constitutes good, responsible behavior on their part.
I receive their solemn vow that they will not throw things, scream, hit, unbuckle, etc.
We get in the car, and about the time we hit 60 mph...I notice things getting louder and louder. I hear objects whizzing, thumpings and thuddings, slappings, and cries....I remind them of our pact....
I look in the mirror and see one child leaning forward towards my seat going "NAAANAAANAAANAAA" as loud as he can, and the other mouthing the words I am saying...
That's it for me, in the ten seconds it takes for me to find a place to pull over I'm hitting wildly and ineffectually. Then I burst into tears, stop the car and refuse to budge until we have complete silence.
Repeat every 30 miles or so until we reach our destination some 300 miles away.
It usually takes us about 18 hours to get there.