Relationship Discussions Thread

[dmp]

1. Straddle the guy's leg.

2. Move your hips back and forth at a moderate to fast tempo.

3. Optional - moan a little bit.

Nothing I've read from you has turned me on quite so much, jeff..

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[dmp]

Is there anything you don't like? I hate it when a man snorts & drools.

While I was single and looking I didn't have esteem enough to be bothered by anything a woman did. I'd pretty much like her, if she liked me, and she were attractive in most any respect.



lol

 

[sitarro]

I just got in from listening to the first set the band played tonight. There's this little thing that's there tonight, has been out a couple other nights, too. Looks about 15, but she's soon to be 25. But, she has already 'offered' herself to the lead singer, Bobby. This is the 2nd one (that I know) and I'm sure many more, who have met him, and offered to take him home. I am also aware that some women are crazy just because a man is on the stage. I've seen women wrap their legs around MM. I've seen women unzip their pants for him. And I sit by & watch all this unfold.

But what is wrong with these girls? Maybe you fellows looked for this kind of girl when you were single. But I don't get it, I'm sorry. In my entire life, I have never had a one-night stand. I couldn't imagine having a casual sexual relationship with someone. I don't consider myself a prude. And I will discuss any aspect of sex with anyone, providing it's on an adult level. I just don't understand this behavior. Especially with the disease that's out there now. Please explain it to me.

Things have changed a lot. In the olden days , far far away , in another space and time , it was amazing how easy it was to have a one night stand . Drugs made a big difference , a quaalude would always get you some and coke was also good for a sure thing especially when mixed with some alcohol.
I liked to dance and hung around a favorite band . They were a progressive cajun band and were great to dance dirty , nasty , cajun swing to.It was basically geat foreplay for a one nighter .Of course those were the days before AIDS , the absolute worst thing you could get was the big H and that wouldn't kill you .There was still a lot of heart ache though , sex has never really been "free".
I am amazed at how incredibly lucky I was when I consider the things I did . Never arrested , no diseases , never got beat up or shot , no overdoses (except on alcohol) , no DUIs , no wrecks and no kids . . . I had to have been born under a good sign . I have calmed down a great deal since then , too many friends that didn't make it (makes you reflect) .

 

[Joz]

Things have changed a lot. In the olden days , far far away , in another space and time , it was amazing how easy it was to have a one night stand . Drugs made a big difference , a quaalude would always get you some and coke was also good for a sure thing especially when mixed with some alcohol.

I don't drink & I've never done drugs. I like to know where my feet are planted. I'm wondering what's wrong with me?!
Too many of the people I serve tell me they like to hide behind the 'excuse' of alcohol, for bad behavior. So, you think that without this extra stimuli things would have been different?

....... the absolute worst thing you could get was the big H and that wouldn't kill you .

I can't understand why someone would want herpes for their entire life. And there was always pregnancy to worry about also. Still, as you said, they weren't life threatening.

There was still a lot of heart ache though , sex has never really been "free".

This is the main point exactly.

I am amazed at how incredibly lucky I was when I consider the things I did.....

Glad you were able to stick around. Who else would take such beautiful pictures of those golf courses?

 

[sitarro]

I don't drink & I've never done drugs. I like to know where my feet are planted. I'm wondering what's wrong with me?!
Too many of the people I serve tell me they like to hide behind the 'excuse' of alcohol, for bad behavior. So, you think that without this extra stimuli things would have been different?
I can't understand why someone would want herpes for their entire life. And there was always pregnancy to worry about also. Still, as you said, they weren't life threatening. This is the main point exactly.
Glad you were able to stick around. Who else would take such beautiful pictures of those golf courses?

Joz,
Being in the Arts in school , I studied Architecture , and the fact that it was the 70s , drugs were plentiful and many of my friends were dealing . That is the falicy of the drug war , most people know friends that not only do drugs but also do fine in their lives . When a kid is constantly told that pot is as bad as heroin and all of their friends are doing it , it makes it hard to believe that anything said by authorities is true . I tried most everything in college that you didn't stick into your arm , easily the most dangerous was alcohol . Pot was the least destructive and that includes the prescription drugs like valium or many painkillers. And yet it is demonized as the gateway drug , BS ,alcohol and nicotine are the gateway drugs , they just have great lobbiest.
I guess I got off on a tangent there but yes , I think that the added stimulis makes a huge difference . Alcohol and any other downers , lower inhibitions tremendously . A drug like quaalude takes away all inhibition , I remember plenty of times ,doing it in the park with cars driving by and not caring . The problem with alcohol is how it effects both your motor skills and your ability to think correctly . A lot of people feel they are invincible when high on alcohol , they drive faster than they are capable of when they are straight , much less impaired , and the same is true with sex . The concequences are blown off and the animal instinct takes over , the younger and less experienced , the worse the effect . Alcohol is not an excuse because unless you have alcohol poisoning to the point of passing out you probably know what you are doing , you just don't care.
I think one of the things that made me lucky is my tolerance to drugs in general . I have never become addicted to any except maybe caffein , not even nicotine . I smoke cigars and pipes and can take or leave them . I smoked pot for 30 years and stopped when I ran out and didn't feel like paying the rediculous prices , no effect . All of the others had very little interest for me . From psilocybin mushrooms to a 4-way hit of windowpane acid at Mardi Gras in New Orleans , most I could take or leave .
I guess I got off on the drug tangent because I see that the misinformation adds to the problem . If parents had more of a clue about the real effects of drugs they would be able to speak with more knowledge to their kids and possibly avoid the things that can happen . The same should go for sex education and education about the legal drugs out there , if the parent doesn't tell their kids about these things they are depending on the kid's friends to tell them ,not good for something so important .

 

[Joz]

I appreciate you adding to this thread.

Joz,
.... the fact that it was the 70s , drugs were plentiful and many of my friends were dealing . That is the falicy of the drug war

I was around for the 70's too. ...... ,

alcohol and nicotine are the gateway drugs , they just have great lobbiest.

And if the government can figure a way to make money off the other stuff, it'll be legal, too.

I think that the added stimulis makes a huge difference . Alcohol and any other downers , lower inhibitions tremendously . A drug like quaalude takes away all inhibition ...., and the same is true with sex . The concequences are blown off and the animal instinct takes over , the younger and less experienced , the worse the effect.

I never knew this, really.

Alcohol is not an excuse because unless you have alcohol poisoning to the point of passing out you probably know what you are doing , you just don't care.

I appreciate your honesty. So, let me ask you this. Does alcohol make you say things you don't want to? I mean,if I get a phone call in the middle of the night, with someone on the other end saying "I love you", Do they really feel that way, just that moment they're feeling that way, or just alcohol, period?

......... The same should go for sex education and education about the legal drugs out there , if the parent doesn't tell their kids about these things they are depending on the kid's friends to tell them ,not good for something so important .

Maybe, some young person and/or parent will be spared alot of heartache by what you have said. Thanks.

 

[sitarro]

I appreciate you adding to this thread. I was around for the 70's too. ...... ,And if the government can figure a way to make money off the other stuff, it'll be legal, too.

I think that the added stimulis makes a huge difference . Alcohol and any other downers , lower inhibitions tremendously . A drug like quaalude takes away all inhibition ...., and the same is true with sex . The concequences are blown off and the animal instinct takes over , the younger and less experienced , the worse the effect.

I never knew this, really. I appreciate your honesty. So, let me ask you this. Does alcohol make you say things you don't want to? I mean,if I get a phone call in the middle of the night, with someone on the other end saying "I love you", Do they really feel that way, just that moment they're feeling that way, or just alcohol, period?
Maybe, some young person and/or parent will be spared alot of heartache by what you have said. Thanks.

Thanks Joz,
I have found that most people are brutally honest when they are drunk , they will say what they would normally be too shy to say . That said , alcohol being a depressant for most people will possibly intensify feelings that may be repressed normally like those "I love you man." commercials .I wouldn't say it makes you say something , it is probably more like . . . it lets you say something you wouldn't normally say . Does that make sense?

 

[Bonnie]

1. Straddle the guy's leg.

2. Move your hips back and forth at a moderate to fast tempo.

3. Optional - moan a little bit.

:shocked:

 

[Joz]

Thanks Joz,
I have found that most people are brutally honest when they are drunk , they will say what they would normally be too shy to say . That said , alcohol being a depressant for most people will possibly intensify feelings that may be repressed normally like those "I love you man." commercials .I wouldn't say it makes you say something , it is probably more like . . . it lets you say something you wouldn't normally say . Does that make sense?

Yeah, it makes sense. Working around this so much, I've been quite curious about this.
So, you're saying that they may feel a particular way, but sober the circuits are working and they have control over whether or not to say what's on their mind. Alcohol causes them to short-circuit, so the ability to control tho't to speech doesn't work as well. Thus, "I love you man".

 

[5stringJeff]

:shocked:

Yeah... my wife peeked over my shoulder and said the same thing...

 

[Shattered]

Yeah... my wife peeked over my shoulder and said the same thing...

...and did she leave a handprint on the back of your head?

 

[5stringJeff]

...and did she leave a handprint on the back of your head?

She was less than thrilled about the post...

 

[Shattered]

She was less than thrilled about the post...

...but did she leave a handprint on the back of your head?

I woulda.. :tng:

 

[5stringJeff]

No.

 

[Shattered]

Drat. That woulda been worth a picture in itself.

 

[dilloduck]

Drat. That woulda been worth a picture in itself.

getting anxious for show and tell day ?

 

[Mr. P]

getting anxious for show and tell day ?

Isn't that what this thread is all about..which I find disgusting..same as when guys hang and talk about their sex life at work.

 

[dilloduck]

Isn't that what this thread is all about..which I find disgusting..same as when guys hang and talk about their sex life at work.

says sexual discussion but seems to be heading towards naked pics---sorry to hear your offended

 

[Shattered]

Isn't that what this thread is all about..which I find disgusting..same as when guys hang and talk about their sex life at work.

I think it's deviated somewhat from that, in to a joking thread now. A pop to the back of the head for a comment obviously made in jest just doesn't qualify as sex talk, or even alluding to nude photos - tho, in some peoples minds, who knows...

 

[dilloduck]

I think it's deviated somewhat from that, in to a joking thread now. A pop to the back of the head for a comment obviously made in jest just doesn't qualify as sex talk, or even alluding to nude photos - tho, in some peoples minds, who knows...

True--I think Joz was intending it to be a bit more serious than what it's evolved into---but it sure won't be the first time. I guess it's offensive to some and just play to others