That is not funny. If there was actually a God, playing games with us like that is nothing but cruelty. I have some questions for him, such as where is my son. Is my son okay? Is he taking good care of my son? Why would he give me a son and take him away from me in such a cruel manner?
God isn't playing games. He just has this thing about blowing one's own horn. If one does something good for another, God advises keep it quiet. He certainly does.
I've always a great deal of respect for the Psalm that flat out state that we will go through dark times. The Psalm doesn't promise that the dark times will go away, only that God will be with us as we go through them. Sometimes it is so dark and painful, I don't want anyone near, and that includes God. I just hurt too badly and need left alone.
When each person enters this life, the question is not, "Will we suffer?" The question is, "How will we suffer?" Suffering is reality for all.
Thinking of your son in good hands would still be of small comfort, not when his place is in your hands.