Rape Victims Who Choose The Babies Life Over Politics

[0311]

That's THEIR decision, not yours, not mine, and it shouldn't be government's.

End of story.

That was the mantra of Republicans for years, keep, "Keep The Government Out of the Doctor's Office." Now, they demolished the doctor's office.

 

[Dragonlady]

The abortion advocates have a lot of faulty assumptions.
When dealing with women's mental health the shortest distance between two points is never a straight line. People are not as cold hearted and simple as they want to believe. And the abortion advocates do not have to live with the consequences of their actions.

Most women are genetically hard wired to love and protect babies. The babies are still theirs even if the baby's father assaulted her.

It seems like a simple solution....but in truth it is not. Abortion complicates the mental health of a Sexual Assault victim. It doesn't cure the trauma it creates another one because women are uniquely different from men. (sorry all the LGBTQ advocates.
Nobody rapes the transgendered and they don't get pregnant either.)

And its a system of "one size fits all" approach for mental health that is dehumanizing to the victim.

There is NOTHING more condescending that an idiot mansplaining pregnancy and bonding with a fetus to women, and being completely WRONG on every score.

Yes, having an abortion after being raped is an additional trauma which can and will affect her mental health, but so it having your rapists baby. There is nothing that happens as a result of the rape that isn't traumatizing to the woman, regardless of what she chooses to do, if she becomes pregnant.

You're right. A "one size fits all" approach doesn't work. That's why banning abortion is making things worse, because then, the woman has no choice but to give birth to the rapists child, and she may not ever bond with that child, and may always resent being retraumatized by being force to have the baby.

None of these are YOUR decisions. And banning abortions does nothing for the 50% of pregnant rape victims who do choose abortion.

A close friend of mine chose abortion when she was pregnant for the 3rd time before the age of 20, and her alcoholic husband was beating her up regularly. I knew that she hated having that abortion when it happened. Years later I asked her if she regretted that decision, and her response was that she would never do it again, but it was absolutely the right decision. It enabled her to leave her husband, return to school, provide a good life and a safe environment for her daughters. She would never have been able to do it with three small babies.

 

[forkintheroad7]

I repeatedly hear the political propaganda that all rape victims seek and want abortions. That is a bigoted stereotype.

I was very surprised to find out that the majority of women who have babies from being raped are very happy and less traumatized then those forced, coerced, or choosed abortion.

Studies show most pregnant rape survivors choose life with no regrets

When pro-lifers oppose abortions in cases of rape and encourage rape survivors to choose life, they are not hurting these women, but empowering them.

www.liveaction.org

Many people assume that pregnant rape victims want abortions, and that if they aren’t able to get them, their lives are ruined, and their babies become a constant reminder of the rape. However, no less than three studies have found otherwise.

Thres studies! Woman do better having the baby after a rape!

Here is another great part in the article!
93% of the rape victims who aborted said they would not recommend abortion to someone in the same situation. Only 7% felt that abortion was a good solution in cases of rape. In addition, 43% said that they felt pressured to choose abortion by their family and/or by abortion workers.

Democrats always telling us what to think are again proven wrong, by the victims they claim they are trying to help.

Democrats intentions always destroy.

Great post.

Didn't know the %age was so high: 93% say they don't recommend abortion for rape. I had no idea.

 

[Dragonlady]

Great post.

Didn't know the %age was so high: 93% say they don't recommend abortion for rape. I had no idea.

You didn't know it because it's not true. His "study" is from a rabid anti-abortion website. About as authentic as a lung cancer study from a tobacco company.

 

[0311]

There is NOTHING more condescending that an idiot mansplaining pregnancy and bonding with a fetus to women, and being completely WRONG on every score.

Yes, having an abortion after being raped is an additional trauma which can and will affect her mental health, but so it having your rapists baby. There is nothing that happens as a result of the rape that isn't traumatizing to the woman, regardless of what she chooses to do, if she becomes pregnant.

You're right. A "one size fits all" approach doesn't work. That's why banning abortion is making things worse, because then, the woman has no choice but to give birth to the rapists child, and she may not ever bond with that child, and may always resent being retraumatized by being force to have the baby.

None of these are YOUR decisions. And banning abortions does nothing for the 50% of pregnant rape victims who do choose abortion.

A close friend of mine chose abortion when she was pregnant for the 3rd time before the age of 20, and her alcoholic husband was beating her up regularly. I knew that she hated having that abortion when it happened. Years later I asked her if she regretted that decision, and her response was that she would never do it again, but it was absolutely the right decision. It enabled her to leave her husband, return to school, provide a good life and a safe environment for her daughters. She would never have been able to do it with three small babies.

Only two people should be involved when comes to woman having an abortion. The woman and her doctor. The Government has zero business telling woman or a young girl they have carry to term a child that was the result of rape and/or incest. It is that simple.

 

[Dragonlady]

Only two people should be involved when comes to woman having an abortion. The woman and her doctor. The Government has zero business telling woman or a young girl they have carry to term a child that was the result of rape and/or incest. It is that simple.

In Canada, we have no abortion laws. The decision is entirely between the woman and her doctor. Abortions are also fully covered by our universal government funded health insurance. Our abortion rate is half that of the USA.

We also have mandated 1 year maternity/paternity leaves and job security for new parents. Paid leaves are funded through our unemployment insurance. Low income families receive up to $500 per month, per child, child tax benefit. We also have subsidized day care spaces, although not enough of them.

Instead of just talking about "family values", our nation supports them, and our young families. Instead of banning abortion to raise our birth rate, we're providing meaningful help to young families.

Unlike the USA, most first world countries have learned that financial supports to low income people ENCOURAGES productivity, not sloth. The more people have, the more they want.

 

[0311]

Canada's Universal Health Care scares the crap out of ReNaziKlans.

 

[elektra]

Thousands of women are dying due to pregancy complications in red states which have banned abortions.

Pregnant women die all the time and it has nothing to do with the pregancy.

First and foremost, abortion is not a procedure a doctor uses to save a woman's life.

Yes, I do understand that Democrats misuse the term, abortion and apply that term to the surgical procedure a doctor would use.

Abortion clinics never ever use the surgical procedure an emergency room would use.

I also understand that every insane piece of propaganda you deviant democrats think up is written up as a, "study" and posted on the internet so you can say, "see. It says so on the internet, it is true."

Thousands of women do not die because they can not have an abortion. Not one dies because there is no abortions.

 

[elektra]

You didn't know it because it's not true. His "study" is from a rabid anti-abortion website. About as authentic as a lung cancer study from a tobacco company.

Sour grabes, huh

 

[elektra]

What the fuck are you talking about. No one cares about your fucking avatar or what it means.

You know exactly what I am talking about. Nobody cares?

Dragonlady is stereotyping, Semocrats always stereotype people because democrats will aleays be the party of Bigots. The party of slavery, the KKK. Imprisoment of Japanese citizens.

Democrats use hate and division to retain power. Democrats then claim they are here to protect us from those that in thier bigotry they stereotype as dangerous.

Dragonlady is a bigot

 

[JohnDB]

There is NOTHING more condescending that an idiot mansplaining pregnancy and bonding with a fetus to women, and being completely WRONG on every score.

Yes, having an abortion after being raped is an additional trauma which can and will affect her mental health, but so it having your rapists baby. There is nothing that happens as a result of the rape that isn't traumatizing to the woman, regardless of what she chooses to do, if she becomes pregnant.

You're right. A "one size fits all" approach doesn't work. That's why banning abortion is making things worse, because then, the woman has no choice but to give birth to the rapists child, and she may not ever bond with that child, and may always resent being retraumatized by being force to have the baby.

None of these are YOUR decisions. And banning abortions does nothing for the 50% of pregnant rape victims who do choose abortion.

A close friend of mine chose abortion when she was pregnant for the 3rd time before the age of 20, and her alcoholic husband was beating her up regularly. I knew that she hated having that abortion when it happened. Years later I asked her if she regretted that decision, and her response was that she would never do it again, but it was absolutely the right decision. It enabled her to leave her husband, return to school, provide a good life and a safe environment for her daughters. She would never have been able to do it with three small babies.

I'm pro life...unapologetic about it too. And just because you falsely accuse me of "mansplaining" or being chauvinistic or anything else wrong....I have considered the source and found it severely lacking in any sort of humanity or even reasonable thought processes.

If you had a good excuse or even a lame one for executing pre birthed babies I would listen. But you don't. You talk all about the mother but ignore the child. And based solely upon your reasoning the extrapolation should include your personal execution for trying to hurt my feelings (if I actually owned any but I'm sure you have succeeded with others)
So explain to me once again why we should execute you?

 

[elektra]

And what about those who want to terminate their pregnancy, you would force to do something they NOT was to do.

They have the option not to get pregnant.

 

[elektra]

Canada's Universal Health Care scares the crap out of ReNaziKlans.

Canada's healthcare sucks. Our healthcare attracts people from Canada that can not wait in a line for months.

 

[Lesh]

"A free people ought not only be armed and disciplined, but they should have sufficient arms and ammunition to maintain a status of independence from any who might attempt to abuse them, which would include their own government." GEORGE WASHINGTO

You should look up the word "Innocents". Genocide has gotten such a bad name. What a monster one would be if they eradicated AIDS...

So your “concern for the innocent “ is pretty conditional

 

[Lesh]

They have the option not to get pregnant.

Rape victims?

Really?

Asshole

 

[elektra]

Rape victims?

Really?

Asshole

Rape victims was not in your comment. Victimizing the baby does not make the trauma and damage of the rape go away.

Women are natural mothers that regret abortion.

What needs to end is you forcing women to get abortions.

 

[Lesh]

Rape victims was not in your comment. Victimizing the baby does not make the trauma and damage of the rape go away.

Women are natural mothers that regret abortion.

What needs to end is you forcing women to get abortions.

This thread is ABOUT rape victims stupid

 

[elektra]

This thread is ABOUT rape victims stupid

Sure, I made the thread I know. Threads never stay a 100% on topic.

You responded to a comment that was about women, not strictly about women that got raped.

 

[Dragonlady]

You got in. Wayyy back in the 80s, I was a counselor with Plalnned Parenthood. We were taught to tell girls
"Your boyfriend will dump you if you keep this baby and you won't find another with a belly.

You can date tonight and not be pregnant. Think of the parties you won't be able to go to.

Do you think you'll be able to go dancing? How about sports? Do you play soccer? Cheerleader? Your social life is dead if you stay pregnant and you will never get it back with a baby.

You could die, bleed to death, unless you have an abortion. Your baby could be defective. You could have a baby with no arms or legs.

Given that the vast majority of women seeking abortions are over the age of 20, and more than half are married or in a committed relationship, why would you be telling adult women, the majority of whom are married, the bullshit you just posted.

Only 6% of women seeking abortions are teenagers, you lying asswipe.

Legal abortions rate U.S. by age 2022 | Statista

In the United States, women aged 20 to 24 years have the highest rates of abortion. In 2021, there were 13.3 abortions per 1,000 women aged 30-34 years.

www.statista.com

 

[elektra]

Given that the vast majority of women seeking abortions are over the age of 20, and more than half are married or in a committed relationship, why would you be telling adult women, the majority of whom are married, the bullshit you just posted.

Only 6% of women seeking abortions are teenagers, you lying asswipe.

Legal abortions rate U.S. by age 2022 | Statista

In the United States, women aged 20 to 24 years have the highest rates of abortion. In 2021, there were 13.3 abortions per 1,000 women aged 30-34 years.

www.statista.com

Stay on topic, this thread is about rape